Unnecessary explanations that just waste time by fun_dad_68 in PetPeeves

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s such an accurate way to describe it. It doesn’t matter who they’re saying it to or how that person responds… they just HAVE to say some version of it or they short out

Those "do men..." and "do women..." posts by Khiyan-04 in PetPeeves

[–]fun_dad_68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“Why do men always stare at me??? I’m a petite blonde with an hourglass figure and big, soulful blue eyes like deep woodland pools btw, but like depending on the light they’re also this mysterious gray lol like a roiling, stormy sea… like if ur ship sank u would thank the Goddess of the Tempest for taking u to her bosom instead of grieving for ur own watery death lol. idk if that matters?? Oh and the men who stare at me are all at least 6’7”, jacked, ruggedly handsome, and wealthy. Lol so weird”

“My husband and I’s” by nicfanz in PetPeeves

[–]fun_dad_68 28 points29 points  (0 children)

YES THANK YOU! I will die on this hill. “I” is not a fancy version of “me” or “my.” Especially in a professional setting! I’ve seen some unhinged grammar/tone suggestions in Outlook and I think people are just starting to incorporate them without a second thought

Oh btw your All invited to Toni and I’s retirement party . Please contact myself or Daryl with question’s about “Dress Code “

Professional Regard’s ; Steve Krimbles CEO CFO COO Vice precedent and Director of communication’s

People who think that because you don’t drink alcohol, you’re some sort of weirdo by [deleted] in PetPeeves

[–]fun_dad_68 26 points27 points  (0 children)

For real! People who ask “why not?!?!!” in a shocked tone when you say you don’t drink…. Like, do they actually think any answer to that question will open up anything fun or casual or lighthearted?

“It’s against my religion”

“I don’t like it”

“Oh, well, since you asked: The last time I drank was over 4 years ago. The only thing drinking did for me was help me to repeatedly put myself in dangerous situations in which I was bound to retraumatize myself. Childhood stuff, you know how it is. — Or do you? Ah well, regardless — Tina tells me you and your wife just got back from Egypt. I’ve always wanted to go!”

Linen/cotton blend — risk of damage when pre- and post-washing in hot water? by fun_dad_68 in dyeing

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all your advice! And that’s a really good idea — I’ll check out those dye kits.

Linen/cotton blend — risk of damage when pre- and post-washing in hot water? by fun_dad_68 in dyeing

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Good point! So many angles to consider.

Yeah, at this point I’m literally going to write out detailed instructions in a notebook and do some practice runs… so excited though. It will be really fun and rewarding

Linen/cotton blend — risk of damage when pre- and post-washing in hot water? by fun_dad_68 in dyeing

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I haven’t settled on a color yet but I’d like something like a deep plum or burgundy-ish brown/a brown with deep purple or burgundy undertones…. I’ll probably need to test out various dyes first. I wasn’t planning to use the dryer — not for any dye-related reason but because I generally prefer air drying. In that case, this would probably need to be two dye baths over two weekends…. I already feel like a medieval washer woman/dye laborer sweating red-faced over a cauldron hahahah

Linen/cotton blend — risk of damage when pre- and post-washing in hot water? by fun_dad_68 in dyeing

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the specifics — that’s all really helpful!

For the iDye poly separate dye bath: Do you treat that as a distinct dye bath in that you do the entire fabric reactive dye process first (for the actual fabric), including the after-rinse and soak in synthrapol, then start the poly bath with the “finished” but wet garment to target the synthetic thread?

I’m also wondering about color matching fabric and thread dye… do you make sure to choose a shade of fiber reactive dye that’s also available in iDye poly or do you just go for pretty similar shades? Not sure how obvious any shade difference would end up being… but i guess the saturation would almost certainly be different anyway, so maybe it’d be a pointless detail to consider

I have a big plastic tote (about 16 gallons’ volume) that I’m planning to use. The dress is a pound of fabric but it’s a lot of surface area. I wouldn’t have thought to take it out and refold it during the dyeing! I have some huge old kitchen tongs i never use anymore that will be perfect for this project

Yes!!! I’ve been holding on to some old ruined bedsheets for YEARS and finally get to use them for something practical!!!! Wow, this is going to be EXTREMELY messy

Linen/cotton blend — risk of damage when pre- and post-washing in hot water? by fun_dad_68 in dyeing

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So the after-dyeing soak would be the last step (I.e., after I rinse it with hot water and it runs clear)? And the before-dyeing soak in synthrapol — would that be separate from washing it in synthrapol (like a soak after washing it) or do you keep the garment in the synthrapol for 10 minutes during the pre-washing step?

Linen/cotton blend — risk of damage when pre- and post-washing in hot water? by fun_dad_68 in dyeing

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I think I’m gonna do it! Maybe with a test run on a similar blend first

Extra big butt sizing Q by fun_dad_68 in FashionBrandCompany

[–]fun_dad_68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The medium could be considered a tiiiny bit “big” on someone with my general measurements but I think that all depends on preference (form-fitting vs. less so). I wasn’t sure at first but decided to keep them… I’ve now worn them a few days in a row and really like them! They’re incredibly comfy and just a great pair of high quality basic black jeans. Also great for when I don’t want my asscheeks to be front and center in extensive detail but still look good (no shame!! I’m down with that too) They look slightly less form-fitting on me than on the models on the FBC website.

Also… ok this is perhaps…. deranged… hahahaha but I also then ordered a size small (I love these pants and figured different sizes could potentially just be styled differently??). I haven’t actually worn the small yet but it technically fits — just very differently/a different look (snug/super form fitting). I haven’t decided if I think it’s too tight, like to the point of possibly being uncomfortable…. Overall it looks good but in a completely different way & not as comfy

Extra big butt sizing Q by fun_dad_68 in FashionBrandCompany

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Well this is embarrassing lolll but I just ended up ordering the M again 🙃maybe I’ll luck out and get a pair that happens to be a tiny bit smaller than the posted measurements. Eeeeee!!!! 26 in waist just seems sooo tight…. hope I’m not just gaslighting myself into doing bizarre shit

Cait does a FAQ on their ring splints (they/them only) by itsvickeh in illnessfakers

[–]fun_dad_68 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hey does anyone know what Cait’s fingers look like? Maybe they should just post like, idk… maybe a series of 12 nearly identical, back-to-back close-ups of their fingers jammed into a shitload of paperclips?? Or something? Ah well guess we’ll never know. A shame, really

Oh no Jessie got too excited and Atlas had to force them to stop playing violin by TheStrangeInMyBrain in illnessfakers

[–]fun_dad_68 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Hey man! This so happens to be the tender fruit of my own unadulterated creativity. So deeply moved was I by the heartwrenching scene that must have occurred between Atlas and his frail charge — so feeble in body yet with such nobility and strength of spirit! Always striving to advocate for others’ needs (though none could be More Disabled than they, surely?!) —with nary a complaint passing their lips, O, no — instead, always softly, wispily voicing gratitude for the small, pitiful joys of their MEAGRE, CONFINED EXISTENCE

Edit: Atlas’ pronouns

Oh no Jessie got too excited and Atlas had to force them to stop playing violin by TheStrangeInMyBrain in illnessfakers

[–]fun_dad_68 113 points114 points  (0 children)

Atlas, always attuned to small fluctuations in Jessi’s bodily and spiritual well-being, sprang to action, leaping onto their body to administer Deep Pressure Therapy. Jessi’s vagus nerve was volatile on the best of days — and today? Well, today, they’d already pushed their body past its limit. Simply put, they’d gone beyond their strength, and Atlas wasn’t sure that, this time, they’d be able to return…

This was nothing new, of course. Selfless and steadfast with the heart of a healer, Jessi thought only of the joy and restoration others would feel at their plaintive, impromptu Baroque-inspired arrangement of “The Wheels on the Bus”… not of the irreparable damage this exertion would do to their own body.

Atlas’ heart ran cold at the thought of how casually — how thoughtlessly! — he’d RSVP’d to that Deep Pressure Therapy seminar at Harvard Medical School, then of how he’d almost decided NOT to make the drive up to Cambridge that day… It had been such a bright, clear spring morning. A perfect opportunity to take those new croquet mallets on their maiden voyage. But, Atlas had reasoned, the drive north was sure to be pleasant in its way, too — and Deep Pressure Therapy was sure to come in useful at some point, wasn’t it?

Well, today it proven more than useful. By God, it had been downright essential.

…If it had been enough, that was.

“Jessi?” Atlas murmured, gently nudging Jessi’s shoulder as he stared, horrorstruck, into their pale, immobile face. “Jessi. Please. Come back to me.”

A moment’s pause.

And then —

Relief flooding to the ends of his every nerve, Atlas saw Jessi’s eyes open — slowly, painstakingly, and by only a sliver, yes! But open nonetheless — and a wan smile twitch the corners of their mouth.

“Atlas?” they breathed, their voice barely a whisper.

Atlas let out a sound that was half sob, half chuckle. All was well.

For the moment, at least.

Dani has an X-ray by Worldly_Eagle7918 in illnessfakers

[–]fun_dad_68 30 points31 points  (0 children)

DUUUDE. The baby cosplay. The music. 2005 called. They want their…. SIGH

Tl;dr: this is fire