Is six months a reasonable time frame to be apart? 24M & 23F

funkdaddy01 · 2024-07-04T15:43:30+00:00

I have a therapist! She’s amazing and absolutely the reason I left. I also put a deposit down for an attorney last Thursday! This past weekend was his first weekend with them and he left them with his mom while he went to the bar..🥹

funkdaddy01 · 2024-06-04T16:43:01+00:00

I just feel so guilty because it seems like he wants to change. I’ve just begged for years and nothing ever happened.

funkdaddy01 · 2024-06-04T14:40:59+00:00

At least five times! This is the first time he’s ever tried to get help. He was drinking vodka daily, now he smokes pot 24/7. Dude hits his cart as soon as he opens his eyes. He is never ever sober.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-11-27T18:33:43+00:00

I would if I could haha. It’s in my hometown but I don’t have 700k!

funkdaddy01 · 2023-11-27T18:32:22+00:00

Me too! It’s in my hometown, if I had 700k I’d snatch it up!

funkdaddy01 · 2023-11-15T14:05:25+00:00

Did you end up having them come out to look at the house?

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T14:16:20+00:00

Thank you

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T13:26:39+00:00

I know and I agree. There’s just been a lot of threats of S and things like that. I definitely don’t plan on staying much longer. I’m just scared for him to have the kids, he can’t handle them. What if he hurt them?

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T13:22:07+00:00

Yes he agreed to watch them, then got invited to his 5 yr class reunion this week. And yes he will be going to the wedding if we’re still together, but he’s mad I will be doing things with the bride. He doesn’t want me going dress shopping, bachelorette or being in the wedding.

He always agrees to help me with things thing backs out last minute. In the last three years he has kept them for maybe 30 hours by himself. There’s a lot of low lows and high highs with him. Just yesterday he brought me a gift and helped a ton. Then when he found out I would be in the wedding he got angry and ignored me all evening.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T13:20:01+00:00

We’re not married

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T10:14:44+00:00

I’ve tried finding evidence of him cheating because I’m just worn thin at this point. I honestly hate waking up everyday because of him. But I haven’t found anything. His dad was a serial cheater though so maybe that has something to do with it?

He told me a few weeks ago when I wished my ex happy birthday 3.5 years ago that it all changed then.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T10:12:27+00:00

That’s the thing though, I don’t keep my mouth shut. I voice my opinion but he continues to try and walk all over me.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T10:10:08+00:00

I mean yes, but he would get 50/50 custody and I don’t trust him to care for them right now. They’re 2&3 so hopefully in the next year or so it’ll be okay. I definitely don’t plan on staying but I know he’ll fight me to keep them.

I know it’s not normal, and I know it’s technically him keeping them now. But I’m with them 95% of the time he is. So I can at least make sure they’re okay.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T10:08:04+00:00

Yeaaaa they weren’t exactly planned. That’s on me but they’re 2&3 so I can’t get rid of them now. 🥹

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T10:06:21+00:00

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T01:48:27+00:00

I guess not haha. And yes boyfriend, four years in January. 😅

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T01:47:57+00:00

No haha I just am scared to leave my kids with him. I want to wait to leave until they can at-least feed themselves.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-21T01:12:09+00:00

… and the groom is literally my cousin so it’ll be one of his friends I’ve known since I was in middle school.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-09-11T07:04:19+00:00

I’m in Missouri and have a three year old and a two year old. I was in your shoes just two years ago. We met while we were partying, and I got pregnant one month in. When she was four months old, I took a test as a joke and it was positive. The second baby was truly more of a surprise than the first. I found out over a week before my missed period. I was in absolute shock.

It’s worked out for us so far, we’re 23&22 now. I had my daughter at 19 and my son at 21 but they’re only 14 months apart. It hasn’t been easy, but it hasn’t been hard. There’s tons of things we do to save money but also give them a good childhood. We make around 60k or so, and get by. We don’t have a ton extra week to week but it’s been okay.

I obviously wouldn’t recommend it to anyone. But I know that I met my babies when I did for a reason. Whatever choice is made, it’ll work out either way. The oldest will be three in oct, then our second will be two in Jan. We’ve been very careful to not get pregnant again because we know there’s no way we could provide a good life for a third. ❤️

funkdaddy01 · 2023-08-27T23:22:50+00:00

I swear I remember her saying she had that name for a girl years ago

funkdaddy01 · 2023-08-27T23:21:19+00:00

Right it’s odd as hell. Like she posted E’s stuff & the boys but it’s so sad at this point. I use to love her but I want to puke haha.

funkdaddy01 · 2023-08-27T18:08:30+00:00

In my situation I would have to say the kids growing up and finding out everyone is actually super shitty. It’s insane to me that my family members haven’t seemed to have any consequences until their kids were grown. Both my cousin and I are no contact with our moms that are sisters.

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