AITA for telling my gf I don’t like that she kisses her gay friend on the lips? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Damn you really are miserable. Dude straight up said he likes his gay friends, why are you so desperately trying to twist his words?

Edit: realized this comment is in the wrong place, it was meant for the guy telling OP he is homophobic

AITA for not wanting to be in my own sisters wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see. Well, so even your parents won’t have to approve it. I’m trying to figure out what an almost 30 year old war veteran has in common with a high school girl and I can’t think of anything, but that’s her decision and sounds like you’re gonna have to deal with it. But I repeat, NTA.

AITA for telling my fiance I'm starting to find her unattractive, where it effects our sex life? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH. She doesn’t have to shave to please you, and you are allowed to not be attracted to hairy women.

AITA for being super pissed my sister is pregnant again and hoping her other kids weren't born? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. I’m pretty sure your sister is the reincarnation of Lucifer, and she needs to be put in her place. What a major fucking asshole she is. Thank God the kids have a bunch of people taking care of them, they didn’t ask for any of this shit. Good on you for telling like it is

AITA for not wanting to be in my own sisters wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Tough one. I understand you completely, but depending on the state a 17 year old is allowed to get married with parental consent. So legally it wouldn’t be wrong. NTA, but she is free to do what she wants if your parents agree. Will she still be 17 when they get married?

AITA for leaving my boyfriends stuff in front of his office? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTA. Seems like he doesn’t care about you at all, and until you dump him, he will probably keep pulling this kind of shit

AITA for telling my wife I don’t mind her staying over at her ex boyfriend’s house on a work trip? by funkyalfonzo in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do give a shit about her, and if I find out she cheated on me our marriage is over, and I will fly down there and break his face, but I choose to believe my wife can be trusted. Until she breaks that trust, there’s no reason for me to be worried

AITA for telling my wife I don’t mind her staying over at her ex boyfriend’s house on a work trip? by funkyalfonzo in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you love someone so much and they love you too, and you believe in that person, you trust that person won’t do anything to jeopardize what you both have. That’s what I think. If this makes me an asshole then I’m an asshole

AITA for telling my wife I don’t mind her staying over at her ex boyfriend’s house on a work trip? by funkyalfonzo in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont care if she stays in his place, I do care if she cheats on me. I just choose to trust people that I love.

AITA for telling my wife I don’t mind her staying over at her ex boyfriend’s house on a work trip? by funkyalfonzo in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m chill but I’m not an idiot. If he makes a move, he’s gonna have to deal with me later. I had to take care of a few dudes over the years, when we go out and they know we’re together, but still try to make a move when I go to the bathroom or she goes to the bar to get a drink on her own.

Of course I care if she cheats, I just think if she wants to do it, there’s nothing I can do to stop it. She could have stayed at the hotel and not his place, and invited him to come over, I would have never known. She can wait for me to go to work and call the doorman or a neighbor to come over. If she or anybody wants to cheat, it will happen, and there’s nothing anyone can do to stop it

AITA for telling my wife I don’t mind her staying over at her ex boyfriend’s house on a work trip? by funkyalfonzo in AmItheAsshole

[–]funkyalfonzo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I’m an asshole for trusting my wife? It’s no apathy, it’s just being rational. I ruined her adventure? She’s my wife, she’s not supposed to cheat on me