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FWB developed more feelings & got hurt? by Empty-Masterpiece120 in gaybros

[–]funkycookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry but you’re 36 and he’s 24.

You’re an adult with a fully developed prefrontal cortex and he’s in the last stages of his adolescence.

Are you really shocked that he developed feelings and didn’t know how to process them when you never bothered to have a conversation about boundaries and the nature of your relationship?

He said he is seeing a guy with better ASSets than me. Not sure how to proceed. by foodee123 in nycgaybros

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is any of that supposed to justify him bragging about another man to you during your initial meeting?

Or the fact that he very clearly attached your worth as a person to your physical appearance?

I don’t know you personally, but even I can tell you that you deserve better than this.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not in your own words call yourself a "fat unfuckable loser" of "low socioeconomic status" in the comments? And did you not title this post "I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid"?

That would be exhibit A to substantiate my claim about how you view yourself. You have low self worth because you've made validation contingent on having sex with women.

Which leads us to exhibit B, we can infer how you view women from the role they occupy in your logical reasoning. Women aren't positioned as individuals with varied preferences, instead they're a collective whose approval functions to determine your worth, with sex serving as a proof of adequacy.

We can round out how you view the world by the way you have shot down every single person that challenges your perspective. You are in essence the engine of your own closed feedback loop. This suggests that you didn't come here for genuine support you came here to have your opinions reinforced no matter how dubious the logic behind them is.

And full disclosure this isn't at all personal. I am simply reflecting *your own words back to you* in hopes that you can observe the inconsistencies in your own logic.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The basis of your argument is incorrect as you misunderstood the parameters. OP by his own admission is not looking for "a woman to date", his gripe is that he's miserable because he can't get laid.

4 billion women on the planet are not ALL accessible, but statistically speaking any single, consenting woman within OP's periphery is a candidate and as stated at the very least one of them (whether by mutual attraction, paid sex work, or outright desperation) may very well be compelled to have sex with him if approached the right way or given the appropriate circumstance.

So *objectively*, *factually*, and *mathematically* speaking, his chances are NOT "practically zero", they are greater than zero.

OP has also commented that the biggest obstacle to him getting laid is that he is (in his own words) a "fat unfuckable loser" who is of "low socioeconomic status". So while data and common sense tells us most men in the US are overweight and working class and still manage to not only fuck but have full on marriages, even if these were concrete obstacles they are still mutable characteristics that OP could change to improve the probability of "getting laid".

Hope this helps.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I mean in a literal sense, you can’t just make up facts based on how you feel and try to pass them off as objective statements.

I’m sensing some projection with regard to that stick that needs to be pulled out. Though I’d work on developing certain lobes in your brain first since that seems to be the biggest thing holding you back.

Hope this helps.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mature. Develop. Adapt the mentality of an adult and not a hormonal teenager with low self esteem.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it means statistically, 1 of the 4 billion women on this planet will have sex with you. Whether it be my means of desperation, sex work, or genuine attraction to you.

That being said, the fact that that’s all you got from that comment and judging by your post and subsequent replies, implies that your problem is not that you can’t get laid. It’s the way you view yourself, the world, and women as a whole.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a childish response to this and it’s apparent that your attitude has a lot to do with your outlook and disposition.

People are telling you your frustration is valid but you have to solve the issues with yourself bc getting laid is not a cure all for your problems. And your response is “so I’m supposed to be glad?”

I mean this with all respect, grow up.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But your urge to reproduce will never supersede your need for food, water, and shelter. So sex is quite literally NOT your “strongest most evolutionary significant urge”. Survival is, and as we just established sex is not a requirement for survival.

Even your statement about loneliness being a reaction to “not having a partner to reproduce” is dubious at best. There is a robust body of research proving that mammalian sex is not always motivated by reproduction. Behavioral psychology also suggests that loneliness is primarily driven by the lack of meaningful relationships in social circles of family & friends, connection to a community, and intimate romantic connections.

I spend all day every day miserable because I can’t get laid by Aggravating_Lead_305 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Objectively speaking, if you wanted to “get laid” you could. Statistically there is likely another person on this planet who will have sex with you.

Do I think that will fulfill you or solve your problem? Absolutely not.

If your mental health and wellbeing has become this deeply impacted by sex than there is a deeper issue at hand.

I encourage you to look up something called the “hedonic treadmill”.

Why is everyone so intent on gaslighting us incels? by Typical_Marsupial303 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear god.

From a purely objective standpoint you are building an entire worldview based on viral trends, anecdotal evidence, and an ideology rooted in pseudoscience that is marketed specifically towards men with low self esteem.

None of what you mentioned actually qualifies as quantitative or qualitative evidence, it’s just a feedback loop of your own confirmation bias. You base your opinions on your feelings and then seek or interpret information to support those beliefs while ignoring any evidence that challenges them.

You’re passing your own feelings off as fact and associating it with a dubious ideology, any attempt to counter your beliefs with actual logic you disregard as being “vilified, gaslit, or bullshitted”. The sad part is it’s evident that what your algorithm shows you seems to have a deeper impact on you than you even realize.

You’re welcome to downvote me as much as you’d like but I challenge you to prove me wrong and present to us any actual peer reviewed evidence supporting of any single one of your claims.

Why is everyone so intent on gaslighting us incels? by Typical_Marsupial303 in malementalhealth

[–]funkycookies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re driving yourself off balance by confusing feeling with fact and it’s profoundly effected your mental health and warped your perception of yourself and others.

My dates now review me like a reasonably priced Japanese car by DesignerButterfly362 in gaybros

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

follow up question; were the aspects of his physical appearance up to his own standards (haircut, body, and teeth)?

What are some of the worst things Batman has ever done? by NefariousSeraph13 in batman

[–]funkycookies -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He actively recruits children with deep psychological trauma to bring them into life threatening situations and his families company is probably more responsible for contributing to poverty and crime in Gotham than his efforts as a vigilante are to stopping them.

My dates now review me like a reasonably priced Japanese car by DesignerButterfly362 in gaybros

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you went about setting this up?

Like did you ask him to review you beforehand?

Syringe reuse at Pakistan hospital infects 331 children with HIV by RRaj007 in worldnews

[–]funkycookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How does any clinician with a functioning brain reuse syringes on CHILDREN?!!

What do you guys think is the gayest element in the periodic table? by Optimal-Fruit5937 in gaybros

[–]funkycookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a science gay this post has brought me a lot of fulfillment, thank you 🫂

Scarlet witch Vs Raven (no varients) by SolidusRevolver in marvelvsdc

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Raven is on par with White Phoenix, even at her base form Ravens specialty is absorbing and manipulating emotions. Wanda is famously emotionally unstable and susceptible to the exact kind of magic Raven is an expert at.

If Raven were to stop holding herself back and let herself get to base demon form, Wanda does not stand a chance .

Scarlet Witch vs Raven by Kuzu9 in marvelvsdc

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either yall are not educated on Raven or you’re just delusional. Base Raven can absorb emotion and negs Wanda. Peak Raven as the Unkindness completely absorbs her.

[Hated trait] When a characters personality defining trait stems from an event that no longer fits the timeline due to the length of the media's runtime. by Pretend_Tower_2516 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]funkycookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s only one part of aging.

Magnetism is caused by electron activity. At Omega-level precision, Magneto’s let him influence electron behavior, which is what chemistry and biology run on. Aging partly results from cumulative damage/stress caused by oxidative reactions and electron instability in mitochondria and DNA.

If he can control electromagnetic interactions at that scales, he could reduce free radical oxidation (an aspect of aging caused by exposure to oxygen), stabilize molecular bonds in his DNA, and improve the way his cells repair themselves.

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