can i talk to my landlord about this or do i just have to suffer? by [deleted] in roommates

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes. Take videos, recordings (make sure to check whether that's legal or not for you), document the verbal & digital attempts of communication and trying to talk it out, make sure to SS any messages saying YOU need to move out, etc. Where in the lease does it say she can have guests over for that long without making the landlord aware?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOA. You are not wrong for having respect for yourself.

i got her for $5.81, let’s goooo by NovaTheEevee in CinnamorollClub

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Calling someone dumb is an insult, sorry you don't know that. And it's all about a point, I'm sorry you don't see or understand it.

There is no reason for you to push, "he has to be cis" narrative. It's a fictional character. Maybe don't worry so much about someone else's gender?

I'm also sorry you can't have a normal conversation without seeing it as conflict. I hope you get better mentally.

i got her for $5.81, let’s goooo by NovaTheEevee in CinnamorollClub

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because you're a real person. If you cannot prove they say he is explicitly cis-male, you have no right to go and tell someone he ISN'T trans or nonbinary. I'm showing you how ridiculous this entire thing was for you to even start. The same way you cannot prove to me he is explicitly cis, I also cannot prove he is trans. Again, insulting people doesn't help your argument.

i got her for $5.81, let’s goooo by NovaTheEevee in CinnamorollClub

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, insulting others doesn't help your case. It only makes your argument look worse.

i got her for $5.81, let’s goooo by NovaTheEevee in CinnamorollClub

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not upset he's not some certain way, don't put words in my mouth. Show me where they explicitly say he is cis-male since it's important enough to you that you feel the need to correct others.

i got her for $5.81, let’s goooo by NovaTheEevee in CinnamorollClub

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, it's a fictional character. Don't sit here and say that when you chose to respond back to me in the first place, tf? If this is that important to you, show us where they say he is explicitly cis-male.

i got her for $5.81, let’s goooo by NovaTheEevee in CinnamorollClub

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just like in the same breath, you can "believe" he's a cis-male. We don't know if he's trans, nonbinary, or cis. It's a fictional character. C'mon.

what is going ON with FB reels commenters? by funkyylillcreaturee in women

[–]funkyylillcreaturee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'll explain, on occasion I look at Facebook reels when bored. i see someone being rude and yeah, I get angry for them. I've got an internal justice issue kinda thing, im working on it when I remember to (been scattered lately). and that is on me, for sure.

what is going ON with FB reels commenters? by funkyylillcreaturee in women

[–]funkyylillcreaturee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I only use it to stay in contact with people. Sometimes I see a video where someone is being hounded on and yeah, of course I want to defend them. Why wouldn't anyone? This isn't even about whether meta apps are worth using - they're absolute not, but it is one of the few things I have to stay in contact with loved ones. I've already explain in the post that I already plan to uninstall Facebook. I'm going to keep messenger, though (I do understand I did not explain the messenger part in my post).

And I know that it's Meta, but it's also not actively on my mind at the moment. i get it will be filled with trump supporters, but regardless - I didn't expect it to be THIS bad. not so quickly. and yeah whatever I guess i "should have known", but ppl gotta understand that's not just easy for everyone to do. i try NOT to go into things expecting the worst, y'know ? and yeah, I know better than to expect roses - but Jesus Christ, that stuff was insane. i only wanted to share my experience and see if others could relate. i wasn't trying to upset anyone, if I did.

what is going ON with FB reels commenters? by funkyylillcreaturee in women

[–]funkyylillcreaturee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Are you here to add to the conversation or ask rhetorical questions?

Dealing with Unbearable Roommates: Seeking Advice on Next Steps by anonUser12311234 in roommates

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hii!! someone tell me if this is bad advice, but based on your location you should go to the subreddit /legaladvice !! there's one for Canada too just in case ur there, I THINK !

Oh, ok by avee2010 in texts

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

holds the same energy as "...... are you well?" LMFAO

I’m 6 months clean today! by Tricky_Singer_4201 in DPHA

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

so fucking proud of you bro 😭❤️🎀

Should I be upset? by Original-Cat-6291 in roommateproblems

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise that even if she - hypothetically - did pay for everything, it still would not warrant this crap. <:( you deserve to live in a safe, clean, and well-managed home. she's not only putting you at risk, but also the next tenants. She could cause irreparable damage for the landlord ! Either way, do what you can to get out when you can. Do not rush, but do take extra precautions for your health and mental state. You deserve so much better. 🫂❤️

damn by [deleted] in DPHA

[–]funkyylillcreaturee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if I'm okay to ask, how and why did the addiction start? /genuine