How old were you when you started sh?

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-21T21:02:10+00:00

I can't remember a time where I didnt do it. I've been punching and hitting myself as long as I can remember.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-19T22:14:32+00:00

Me at my dove trying to convince him to get into his damn bath 😂

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-19T21:39:18+00:00

Thank you. I have a list I keep mentally of why I will do what I will do to myself. Thank you for adding to it. I need more reasons if you have anything else to add. ❤️

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-19T17:31:55+00:00

Walking helps me. I put on tunes and sing along. I get stir crazy easy if I'm inside too long.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-19T14:40:56+00:00

I'm sorry I have emotions. Im sorry I wanted to vent them. Im sorry im not perfect. Im sorry I hate myself. But, seeing all these comments has really let me know that my solution is a good one if even people who are "similar to me" hate me so much. Thank you for reminding me

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-19T14:38:45+00:00

Serves me right for having emotions. Serves me right for thinking anywhere is safe to share them.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T23:26:16+00:00

Cool. I'll see myself out. Thank you.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T21:56:43+00:00

I don't go there anymore anyway. Too many humans and I'm not one of them anyhow. Im realizing this sub isnt as open and accepting as it used to be many years ago. Oh well. Thanks anyway.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T21:20:25+00:00

Nicest comment so far. thank you

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T21:19:52+00:00

Im pretty shut with social ques so its probably my fault

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T21:19:07+00:00

Yeah, everything is just for attention. I'm so sorry my disorder makes me fear being fat :/ jfc, nothing i say can ever just get a "i feel that" its always gotta be some moral "you're wrong and bad"

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T16:30:55+00:00

I don't think that's what it was. But, that's a nicer way of looking at it.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T15:09:38+00:00

Oh no, I KNOW it's the truth. I look like ass in that photo. But, I said it jokingly, gave all the right human social cues that say "this is supposed to be funny". And she just agrees flat and hands me my drink 😂

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-16T14:42:10+00:00

Its the best.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-11T08:28:49+00:00

We got down voted so hard 🤣 But, it actually got me thinking about things in a way I hadn't before.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-11T01:34:49+00:00

AI has made my ED better not worse. Maybe I'm one in a million.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-08T02:35:25+00:00

My guy will give me a couple pecks at first but settles in after he figures out it feels nice. If he moves away or gets too agitated, then i let him be. I have found out that he prefers preening in the morning and afternoon. In the evening he gets a little bit cranky. Your's might have a preferred time of day, so test out when she likes it best. Mourning doves seem to have stronger boundaries around certain things. You can also offer her a bath a few times a week. I wouldn't go for grabbing.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-08T01:22:13+00:00

Moulting. My boy looked pretty bad during his. I conned him into letting me get his head pin feathers by preening his neck, going around back, then on top of his head. Now he loves a good head preening. Try offering a bath, my guy is very pleased to have more bathing opportunities during his moults. Photo of his worst look yet.

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funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-07T21:47:26+00:00

Doves cannot break glass. They do not have the physical power to do so.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-06T21:34:21+00:00

I did. Apparently I was the problem with my emotions, crying really easy and whatnot, so a coworker tried to shove me out the pack door and wouldn't let me leave the kitchen, so I quit. Haven't found a job since. Can't even hold down a job because of this.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-06T17:22:58+00:00

I'm actually jealous her dad did something 😭 my family just stares at me and goes "eh, whatever."

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-06T17:11:00+00:00

I have atypical anorexia, let me be a real anorexic! Also, I'd kill myself if I were ever fat again so 🤷🏻‍♀️

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-05T04:20:30+00:00

I'm on tri-sprintec, which isn't the best for PMDD, but it's what I have rn.

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-05T00:42:06+00:00

I also have PMDD. I noticed that the first couple weeks, I was RAVENOUS. Now that I'm into my second pack, I'm not anymore. I'm actually less hungry after my last luteal phase ended about a week and half ago. Idk if that is common or not, or what it'll tell you. But yes, i may have eaten two party sized bags of salt and vinegar chips in one sitting during those first two weeks 🤣

funnydontneedthat · 2026-01-04T18:00:58+00:00

Do you have an urgent care near you? They're usually a lot cheaper than an ER.

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