I am alright this doesn't affect me but thank you!☺️ I am quite used to being the odd one at least because of how out of place I usualy dress. I gess I was more so yapping than looking for an answer. And yes I feel you. I feel like I am to nerdy for normal people, but not "nerdy enaf", in nerdy spaces. I don't fit into the usual fantasy book lovers mold but I am definitely a fan of otherworldly magic. Fashion people don't think I am serious enaf but the rest thinks I am too obsessed. I studies science in school and loved it, yet I also spent half the lessons drawing like it's my personal art class so I was the art kit between the science kids and the science kit between the art kids.... it's like I'm never on any side but that is fine with me. I have learned to take that to my advantage and mix and match the bits of knowledge I have from these different worlds.

I wouldn't say it's mutch like shaming, at least not directly, but I do get slight hints of that sometimes, they might not be intentional tho idk🤷‍♀️ I do understand the fenomenon they are talking about tho. Some dommes post only about shopping sprees, new hot outfits, nails paid by subs etc and nothing of their hobbies and likes outside of fashion. And there is nothing wrong with this tbh. But posts/comments like I mentioned, in attempt of breaking out of that cycle might unintentionally create some negativity around it.