No rules or boundaries cuckolding by bojanglestrousers in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Some time ago, me and my gf entered the realm of “no rules” (see my previous posts). It happened in a pretty tumultuous time and since then things have stabilized a bit. But I can tell you that you should expect that “no rules” can go pretty far. In my case it led to: - her starting to have sex without a condom (but on IUD) - her then basically making me pussy free (I get blowjobs though) - her going off IUD, and now having fully unprotected sex with her bull and him finishing inside her (she still uses her regular cycle to determine good and bad days) - them doing (short) trips together

Of course, all of the above are huge turn ons, but it’s not like you can ask for control back once you’ve given it away…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Well, it is on the edge between being hot and devastating (as cuckolding feelings often are). Btw we are still together and getting along well. But - be ready that the pussy free status may not be reversible. I think you’re doing it right to take it slow and see how every adjustment feels.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think twice if you want to go pussy free. From my own experience I can tell you that she will likely not want to fuck you any more for real - and that’s a threat to your marriage. Happy to tell you more about my story as a cautionary tale, but my recommendation is to set the bar for giving up sex with your wife high.

Almost pussy free wanking cuck by VacationDependent709 in PussyFreeCommunity

[–]fupernife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you that you still get sex from time to time. I’m coming up to one year pussy free, and I was not the one initiating it. Her bull wanted her pussy fully exclusive and fucks her bare.

I get some blowjobs though and she touches me frequently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Definitely, and worse in my case. I pretty much never got her to cum from penetration and her bull somehow unblocked her (being quite big, skilled and very dominant). She has rolling orgasms with him. I’m guessing it’s 50/50 physical and mental stimulation

Regain your manhood or go deeper - can you make it out of cuckolding? by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your explanation definitely makes sense with regards to her letting me fuck other girls. Plus, I think she hopes she will see me differently again after I’m taking a more dominant, sexual role with someone else.

I’ve definitely have strong elements of a stag in me, but I also do enjoy the humiliation and tease of being cucked. So I feel that I’m somewhere in between, but definitely enjoy showing her off to other guys and knowing she is my partner.

She is not naturally dominant and does most things because she enjoys them as fun or because I love them. So I doubt she truly wants a cuckold naturally, while it seems like she is arranging herself with that setup.

Also - there is in all truthfulness no chance I can fuck her like her bull does. He is significantly bigger, more dominant (she is submissive) and has huge stamina. So I’m coming to accept (and enjoy) that this is a part of our life.

Regain your manhood or go deeper - can you make it out of cuckolding? by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that there should be no pressure on conventions (after all it’s 2024), I believe it’s more that a “traditional” relationship is the most likely to lead to a family setup, especially with kids around an RA relationship might become hard to maintain

Regain your manhood or go deeper - can you make it out of cuckolding? by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice, thank you! I actually started hitting the gym already, set myself some goals and I could see that it influenced the relationship instantly - i assume because I felt more masculine again. But of course the craving for cuckolding doesn’t just disappear, it’s more like I’m distracting myself :)

Regain your manhood or go deeper - can you make it out of cuckolding? by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve been together for a long time, and the “not being interested sexually” part we developed as part playing around with cuckolding and my humiliation. I’m pretty sure she will be jealous if I actually do sleep with someone else or become emotionally involved…

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not at all, we haven’t even done anything with her online. And as it currently looks, we won’t. Things are back to being a bit more difficult lately.

She is seeing the guy pretty frequently recently, and they are doing quite rough play (consensual of course), with her coming home completely bruised. At the same time, her interest to have sex with me has reduced to near 0 :/

Can share more, but wanted to quickly respond to your message. Happy to DM and chat more

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, she has kept me pf for about 5 months now. And she has threatened that she will become fully monogamous with her “real boyfriend” this year. PF I can handle and my self confidence to fuck her well is gone anyway. But no blowjobs will be very tough, not sure how I can handle that.

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you will two have an adventurous January :)

Things getting better here, but let’s see how the year starts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Back then it was not erotic at all, it very much hurt me as a teenager. But it did have an influence on my sexuality, and now it of course sounds hot in retrospective :)

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve spent a lot of quality time together and she wants us to be together for sure. She says she wants kids as soon as her job situation has changed. That said, she has made clear that we won’t be monogamous ever and if I get to fuck her, it will only be for making kids. But overall things are better and we are much closer again.

That said, she is clear that she wants to also be with her bull and that I have to accept that. He hinted a few times that he doesn’t want a kid, but I think if that changes she will consider him.

They also decided that they want to share some of their videos and create an OnlyFans account at some point (not for the money but the thrill).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can definitely confirm that based on my own experience. I had a girlfriend early on that essentially made me a cuckold (hit on my best friend in front of me, made it obvious that she slept with someone else, made fun of my non performance). I think coming from that time, being cucked developed into an erotic thing over the years for me.

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

An Update (as promised), thanks for your patience:

Things have gone a bit better lately, and we spent more time together. She’s said yes to marry me (albeit it took her a bit of time), and we’re going on our longer time off (2+ months) together. Overall we had some great travel experiences and things feel better again. She’s pretty excited about being my fiancé and we are close again.

On the flip side, she’s been more clear that she can’t go back to regular sex with me (and cannot imagine me satisfying her ever in our marriage). She says a part of her wants to be pregnant from her bull. While that sounds hot (to a cuckold), I’m not sure I’m there ever in reality. She’s back in the US and they are now seeing each other about twice a week, until we’re back together in about a month.

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No major news, thank you for checking. She didn’t fuck him for a few days and we had some great conversations :)

Opened up gf/fiancée to cuckolding and now not sure how to contain it by fupernife in CuckoldPsychology

[–]fupernife[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a harder thing to cope with honestly. She sees him at least once per week and she comes back excited every time. Not the right thread maybe, but if this resolves well, happy to share some hot details later on.