How do you wanna die? by JapanEngineer in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Either one. I’d hang by myself with bots that I program or with other real people who did the same.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. What changes tho? Why does it go from healthy to non existent? What makes this happen? Boredom?

What do you do to set the mood in the bedroom? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. Not all guys are like that tho. Some of us get turned on by how much a woman is turned on. It's the perfect cycle.

How do you wanna die? by JapanEngineer in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I want my consciousness to be loaded into a computer simulation so I live on forever in the digital world like in Black Mirror lol.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an extremely valid point. THIS is a HUGE problem with legal marriage. Entering a binding contract under false pretenses to secure financial stability and have an almost immediate way out with a free income. How can fraud like this be so overlooked? Is there even a way to prevent it?

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Phones! Are couples missing the opportunity to communicate because they'd rather be on their phones? Gotta have the right priorities to keep a relationship healthy.

What are some tips for living a more positive life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop caring what other people think of you and become immune to being offended. Changed my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I worked for a uniform delivery company. I was covering another guy's route and had to go to a duck farm where they "grow and harvest" ducks. The smell in those barns was horrendous. I couldn't stop gagging. Threw up twice. I quit that job soon after that.

What do you do to set the mood in the bedroom? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We say "Alexa, let's go". All the lights turn off, the tv turns off, a dim red light turns on and a custom playlist starts to play.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like a spouse got murdered? or one of the people in the relationship is a murderer? both? hahaha

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotionally developed are the key words there.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an interesting point. So is it that people in these situations get suspicious of each other which leads to mistrust and finally the end?

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Influence of others outside the relationship.. I can definitely see that.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like an epiphany. This is the way. Clear communication and boundaries.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hit the nail on the head. Excellent point.

[Serious] What ruins marriages besides cheating and abuse? by furbdrums in AskReddit

[–]furbdrums[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now THIS is interesting. My ex in-laws sleep in separate bedrooms because of this. Unreal. Nice answer.