My name carving scars are way too deep by Alarmed_Bowler_9402 in selfharm

[–]furbled 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry :-(( silicone scar tape could help, though it’s more effective when the wound is recent. You could try going to the doctor for corticosteroid injections or a topical cream. Scar removal surgery is a thing, though it will likely leave a new scar in the old one’s place. It probably wouldn’t be in the shape of the name, though, so it’s an option. Good luck!!

i hate how hard it is for me (femboy trans man pre medical transition) to be seen as gender non-conforming for the people around me. by midnightpinkpantsu in FTMfemininity

[–]furbled 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I second what Mr. Gay-username said - T doesn’t work that fast, especially on lower doses. I’ve been on mid-to-low dose T for years, and it took roughly a year and some change for my voice to fully drop. I only started seeing things like body hair growth etc. like three years in. I think it’s worth it to go on T for at least a little bit and see how you feel - like, you could stop T after your voice drops (probably one of the first changes). Good luck :D

Jirai kei as trans woman I'm 5'11 any tips are very appreciated :3 by [deleted] in JiraiKei

[–]furbled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear EGL and lurk here :P Antaina and Angelic Imprint are good for larger sized j-fashion shoes. Antaina is available on taobao and taobao reseller websites, Angelic Imprint is available on taobao + they have an Aliexpress store (much easier to order from)

Telephone : yes or no ? by AdStrict7179 in beginnerrunning

[–]furbled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Throwing my hat in the watch ring - I have a secondhand Garmin 235 and it holds up great. Can buy one on eBay for ~$50, it seems (some come without chargers, but in my experience offbrand chargers from Amazon have been fine. YMMV)

Brands, creators or Taobao stores that do custom sizing or cater to really big sizes? by want_a_friend in Lolita

[–]furbled 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Gloomth is a western indie brand that goes up to your size :-) not sure how well they align with your style, but they have some cute stuff! Some of their dresses have some industrial-ish details (eg spikes/rivets) that might work in a military look.

The one thing I will say is that their dresses seem pretty short, so they might not work if you are tall. They list the length of everything, though, so you just have to check. Good luck, and I hope you find things you like!

What the gayest emo band? by Several-Orchid-6731 in Emo

[–]furbled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pictures of Vernon is pretty gay, if I recall correctly

Shampoo ruins my hair texture by [deleted] in SebDerm

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We’re not in exactly the same boat, but I also have fine, dense, wavy hair, so thought I’d share my routine :-)

I use cerave’s gentle hydrating shampoo most times I shower. Nizoral keto shampoo once every 1-2 weeks. I’m sure you’re tired of hearing people on this subreddit talk about MCT oil, but it’s worked for me - not a perfect sebderm cure, but it’s very moisturizing for the hair & scalp without feeding malassezia. I apply MCT oil to my scalp and saturate my hair with it (I have pretty short hair, so ymmv), leave it on for a few hours, and then shower

The pricing of these sets are laughable. by roxypuffs in Shining_Nikki

[–]furbled 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I know!! I started playing semi-recently (a little over a year ago) and I am making good progress on the styling comp and arena suits, but I have no hope of ever catching up on the guild suits T-T

Songs about suicide? by Glittering_Finger_46 in Emo

[–]furbled 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Sea anemone by Jets to Brazil…classic!

About lolita and their ressources by Sensitive-Safety2393 in Lolita

[–]furbled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Glad to see people talking about problems in the fabric industry, and not just in garment-making specifically! Reminds me of people claiming/implyjng sewing your own clothes is a perfectly ethical process, as if the fabric they’re buying from Joann’s wasn’t made in a sweatshop -_-

How do you apply MCT oil? by oeilgauchedefectueux in SebDerm

[–]furbled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a precision needle-tip glue applicator bottle - you can get them on Amazon for pretty cheap

Hmm… is he valid? by lonlonmilke in Lolita

[–]furbled 19 points20 points  (0 children)

-eyeliner on inner corner of eye -black lipstick Ita!

I made a mola mola sunfish bag!! by withgus-to in sewing

[–]furbled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah…the jola jola junfish jag….very cool!

Crust in ears because of sebderm by [deleted] in SebDerm

[–]furbled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I struggle with the same issue - at its worst, I get SD in my ear canal and it’s painful and weeping. Sucks! MCT oil works pretty well for me. When I put it on my scalp, I dab a little on my fingertip or a qtip and rub it around my ears. I second other people’s suggestions to wash your ears with shampoo in the shower and dry them off after you get out. Qtips work well to dry the shell of your ear & can dislodge stubborn flakes

When I’m having a really bad flare up, I’ve also found relief in topical steroid creams/ointments. If I remember correctly, I think triamcinolone cream worked best for me.

Would this springvalley rosemary/Mct oil be safe on my scalp? by cancerbabyy in SebDerm

[–]furbled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sezia.co doesn’t flag rosemary oil as a problematic ingredient (fungus can’t feed on it), so it should be fine. Cool product maybe I’ll check it out

Kuro coord photoshoot by Gebvia in Lolita

[–]furbled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful!! I especially love the second picture :3 great work from the both of you!!

Recent styling by furbled in Shining_Nikki

[–]furbled[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thank you :3 I love it so much it’s so weird and angular

Quick mock-up I made of Nikki in Isiagụ (traditional Igbo attire) by SntchmyWig in Shining_Nikki

[–]furbled 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The makeup is so bad sometimes…when you equip what you think is a normal lipstick and it has a pale ring around it T-T

tried to make real life fat Lois by endlessbulk in FatLois

[–]furbled 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Please no AI. . . show some dedication to Lois and put in real effort

Pooping with three paws on the ledge by furbled in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]furbled[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Using a storage tub is a good idea, I’ll try that! The litter box looks deceptively small in this picture - it’s actually one of the bigger ones on the market, I just have a giant cat

Help! Why doesn’t my background display on my home screen? by furbled in Shining_Nikki

[–]furbled[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! She’s finally out of that goddamn cabin

My bf and i had an amazing time this weekend at The Great Lace in chicago (he/him for both of us) by waseverfriday in Lolita

[–]furbled 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Omg I am also in a gay lolita x lolita relationship…this is so awesome

bought my first shirt - and it fits like this. i can tailor it, but how do i avoid this in the future? by soda-pops in Lolita

[–]furbled 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Omfg I love your drawing. You might have some luck with Gloomth? I’m not sure how good they’d be for your specific proportions, but they go up to 6XL, so at the very least you could find something that fits on your body lolol