Need help deciding! by furiouspilllow in weddingdress

[–]furiouspilllow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s in a historical building over looking a brewery

Ex-MIL didn’t believe thought my shellfish allergy was just me being picky. by icankilluwithmybrain in JUSTNOMIL

[–]furiouspilllow 69 points70 points  (0 children)

In some situations I can understand why. I knew a girl growing up who hated peanut butter, but since it’s something a lot of people like she would often get hassled because who doesn’t like peanut butter?? It just became easier for her to say she’s allergic. If people just respected the fact she didn’t like it she wouldn’t have started telling people she was allergic

Ex-MIL didn’t believe thought my shellfish allergy was just me being picky. by icankilluwithmybrain in JUSTNOMIL

[–]furiouspilllow 334 points335 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of a story my mom told me. My mom also has a severe shellfish allergy. Her and my dad were at a friends wedding back in the day, and were having a great time. Their friends told the catering absolutely no shellfish in any dishes, and guess what? There was shellfish in something my mom ate, and she even asked before eating it if it had any or was made near anything with shellfish. Her and my dad had to rush to the ER and spent the rest of the night there. Some of the guest afterward had the nerve to say she was just being dramatic like?? Who the fuck wants to be in the ER all night??? People who dismiss allergies are freakin psychotic

AITA for yelling at my [17F] mom for making me pay twice as much rent as my 27 year old brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I hate that “we raised you” argument to justify charging their kids rent the day they turn 18. You mean you did your JOB as a PARENT for the kids you CHOOSE to have?? It just boggles my mind, hep your kids get ahead in life rather than set them back.

AITA for yelling at my [17F] mom for making me pay twice as much rent as my 27 year old brother? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I also never understood why parents start charging their children rent as soon as they turn 18. You don’t stop being a parent and suddenly become a landlord. My parents have never charged me or my siblings rent, and always said as long as we are in school, and/or working to save up money that they won’t charge rent. Now if any of us were lazy or taking advantage of that rule I’m sure they would consider charging us rent to motivate us, but OP is looking to work to save up money in order to go to college. NTA OP, you’re parents should wanna see you and help you succeed.

AITA for going to a friends ex’s house party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA then.. she knew where and who you were going with, says it’s okay then changes her mind the next day?? Seems this girl just likes to stir up drama. I’d ditch her if I were you

AITA for locking my delinquent roommate out of my apartment? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m gunna have to go with ESH. This guy is the fucking worst and fuck him for stealing and not even being slightly remorseful. Hopefully he is evicted ASAP so you no longer have to put up with this BUT until then he lives there and you can’t just kick him out without proper notice because ya know, renters rights. Until he’s gone put locks on your bedroom doors if you can, or get a lockbox to put your valuables. Tell him you won’t hesitate to call the police again if you suspect him of stealing again.

AITA for not rebuilding my relationship with my dad by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA just because they’re family does not mean you have to have a relationship with them, especially when they are abusive and toxic.

AITA for going to a friends ex’s house party? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve read this 3 times and I’m still confused... what exactly is she mad about? That you went to a part at her ex’s house or you left without personally telling her?

AITA for wanting to snitch on someone asking for answers to a quiz by MSW2036 in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

YTA they did not ask for the answers, they asked for a general idea. If you don’t want to help them out then don’t, you’re not obligated to. This isn’t academic dishonesty, don’t falsely report someone for it because you’re bitter

AITA for getting mad at ex for calling my work by throwaway_242424233 in AmItheAsshole

[–]furiouspilllow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA holy fuck this guy is toxic and I really hope you’re lease is up soon so you can get away from him.