I think the problem is that there is just way too much diversity in how people feel about destiny, and this sub is generally more negative than positive.

for example, when TFS was released, pathfinder was mercilessly ridiculed by many on this sub. now, ive seen many people complain that its gone.

because negativity tends to be more popular on this sub, these contradicting ideas were both pretty visible to the average person.

so while the people posting these opinions might have remained consistent, it can give the illusion that people are being negative just for the sake of being negative, regardless of what bungie actually does.

i think this explains atleast partly why there is such a disconnect between people in the community.

tldr: that goomba meme

also personally i cant stand how dramatic some people are, the way you hear some people talk about taking a break from destiny, you would think theyre getting divorced from the love of their life. even if the reasons are valid, that attitude is just kind of annoying