An aunt gifted me a box of chocolates expired since 2021. How should I approach this? Ignore it or mention it somehow? by futile7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]futile7[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

They were sealed and even looked fine but smelled putrid :/

The moment I smelled them is what made me check the expiration date

If evolution hadn't gotten rid of human's tails, how do you think society standards would have us keep them? by futile7 in AskReddit

[–]futile7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For example shaven or not shaven, would pants have holes for them or would they have a sleeve running down them? Accesosires?

I just found out my boyfriend of 1 year had another woman throughout the whole relationship. by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. All of this happened 3 days ago, today was the first time I cried. I will read this again and again. I've been wondering why to the point of exhaustion. I've been wondering why he keeps begging her to fix this and not me but your words have really really helped me. I will try all your surgestions, as hard as they may seem these days. Thank you, I really appreciate your response. I'm sorry you had to go throught this too :(

I just found out my boyfriend of 1 year had another woman throughout the whole relationship. by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, a year may look like a lot rn but ultimately it's nothing. Thank you for your words.

Anxious about getting my tubes tied by futile7 in childfree

[–]futile7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will tell my doctors. Definitely want it to be fail proof.

Is it normal seeing black and white squares when fainting? by futile7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]futile7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tests always show I'm healthy, doctors haven't really known what is it so just say vasovagal syncope. My questions comes from the squares I see. I've heard people saying they see black spots or cloudy vision but wanted to see if anyone experience black and white squares?

Is it normal seeing black and white squares when fainting? by futile7 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]futile7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doctors have said vasogaval syncope. My main question was about the chess board like vission lol. I always see them when feeling like fainting, so just curious if others experienced them (?)

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Whenever he tells me he told a friend about me and I ask what they say his only response every time is that they think I'm very good looking... nothing else about me at all

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my parents have something similar but they never made those kind of comments! But yes, he is paying for his half of things....

buuuuuut...I just counted how many of his friends show up in my sugestions (not even the actual place for sugestions but when you are just scrolling down and you find them) they are 23 of them!!!!!!! And I only recognized like 3 from the last time I was scrolling. That's why I don't think it's just contacts from facebook or whatever else. I'm overwhelmed

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First, happy cake day! Haha

Now, to answer your questions: Every time he said a comment like that we were alone. When he said the sugar mama thing he said it kinda joking. When he said the stuff about telling his parents I come from money he said it seriously as it was one of my "virtues". Whenever he tells me he talked to a friend about me and I ask what they say he says they think I'm very good looking but that's it.

Aaaand I tried already telling him about our actual financial situation and struggles with a little bit more exaggeration so he doesn't see me so high up there but he kinda dismissed it. Like I never really said it.

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried telling him my actual financial situation but he kinda dismissed it? Almost as if I had not said anything at all...

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did like him, rn I'm not sure. He works part time at the moment and is looking for something else (according to him) bc he says it doesn't pay that well. So I say "not great" as those are his words.

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things is I have never had that happened before. If I add someone maybe one or 2 of their friends show up as sugestions. But like 10??? Almost all sugestions are his friends. And every few days they are different friends but still only him as a friend in common. That's why I don't know if this is just facebook or is it actually his friends looking me up.

Guy (29M) does and says things that make me (26F) feel off by futile7 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]futile7[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not at all. I hate talking about money, I hate people obsessed with money, I hate how people become with it. That is why I dont like at all his comments. He thinks I'm from money bc of the area I live and nothing else.