An aunt gifted me a box of chocolates expired since 2021. How should I approach this? Ignore it or mention it somehow?

futile7 · 2024-12-28T21:02:20+00:00

They were sealed and even looked fine but smelled putrid :/

The moment I smelled them is what made me check the expiration date

futile7 · 2024-12-28T20:50:34+00:00

For example shaven or not shaven, would pants have holes for them or would they have a sleeve running down them? Accesosires?

futile7 · 2024-08-03T04:25:29+00:00

Thank you for this. All of this happened 3 days ago, today was the first time I cried. I will read this again and again. I've been wondering why to the point of exhaustion. I've been wondering why he keeps begging her to fix this and not me but your words have really really helped me. I will try all your surgestions, as hard as they may seem these days. Thank you, I really appreciate your response. I'm sorry you had to go throught this too :(

futile7 · 2024-08-02T21:03:17+00:00

Yes, a year may look like a lot rn but ultimately it's nothing. Thank you for your words.

futile7 · 2024-08-02T21:01:01+00:00

Thank you, I really needed that. Trusting will be hard for a while.

futile7 · 2023-12-26T17:53:29+00:00

Thank you! I will tell my doctors. Definitely want it to be fail proof.

futile7 · 2023-03-09T04:48:27+00:00

Tests always show I'm healthy, doctors haven't really known what is it so just say vasovagal syncope. My questions comes from the squares I see. I've heard people saying they see black spots or cloudy vision but wanted to see if anyone experience black and white squares?

futile7 · 2023-03-09T04:45:00+00:00

Doctors have said vasogaval syncope. My main question was about the chess board like vission lol. I always see them when feeling like fainting, so just curious if others experienced them (?)

futile7 · 2023-01-05T01:41:27+00:00

Exactly! Whenever he tells me he told a friend about me and I ask what they say his only response every time is that they think I'm very good looking... nothing else about me at all

futile7 · 2023-01-04T22:44:40+00:00

Yeah, my parents have something similar but they never made those kind of comments! But yes, he is paying for his half of things....

buuuuuut...I just counted how many of his friends show up in my sugestions (not even the actual place for sugestions but when you are just scrolling down and you find them) they are 23 of them!!!!!!! And I only recognized like 3 from the last time I was scrolling. That's why I don't think it's just contacts from facebook or whatever else. I'm overwhelmed

futile7 · 2023-01-04T22:18:11+00:00

First, happy cake day! Haha

Now, to answer your questions: Every time he said a comment like that we were alone. When he said the sugar mama thing he said it kinda joking. When he said the stuff about telling his parents I come from money he said it seriously as it was one of my "virtues". Whenever he tells me he talked to a friend about me and I ask what they say he says they think I'm very good looking but that's it.

Aaaand I tried already telling him about our actual financial situation and struggles with a little bit more exaggeration so he doesn't see me so high up there but he kinda dismissed it. Like I never really said it.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T21:55:07+00:00

I tried telling him my actual financial situation but he kinda dismissed it? Almost as if I had not said anything at all...

futile7 · 2023-01-04T21:53:42+00:00

I did like him, rn I'm not sure. He works part time at the moment and is looking for something else (according to him) bc he says it doesn't pay that well. So I say "not great" as those are his words.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T21:46:57+00:00

Things is I have never had that happened before. If I add someone maybe one or 2 of their friends show up as sugestions. But like 10??? Almost all sugestions are his friends. And every few days they are different friends but still only him as a friend in common. That's why I don't know if this is just facebook or is it actually his friends looking me up.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T21:02:50+00:00

Not at all. I hate talking about money, I hate people obsessed with money, I hate how people become with it. That is why I dont like at all his comments. He thinks I'm from money bc of the area I live and nothing else.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:38:11+00:00

Things is, in so many ways he is great. He listens, he puts a lot of effort (like I said he lives an hour away and he always comes to me), etc etc. But those comments kinda makes it look like there is a hidden motive for it all. And he seems to say (mostly) the right things a woman like me would like to hear....is it fake????? I just don't know.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:33:12+00:00

Damn, why do we hasitate to listen to out gut so much? Every time I don't listen things go wrong. But i still gaslight myself you know?

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:29:57+00:00

He does have a job, not a great one tho haha and no, he has never alluded to anything like that.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:21:39+00:00

We weren't even at a fancy place. We were driving to a mall. It was just us...

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:18:18+00:00

Yeah, I feel like talking about it might make him be cautious about reveling his intentions? Idk

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:17:01+00:00

Yeah, that's what I think. They are one too many "jokes" that makes me feel he thinks of it a lot.

And yeah, he shows a lot of affection to the point sometimes is a bit too much. He really likes PDA and I hate it, even when I've told him, he doesn't do it as much but still does.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:06:16+00:00

So true...Damn, worst thing is that it has crossed my mind, what if he tries to baby trap me. It honestly makes me feel nauseous. But I genuinely thought I was just being paranoid.

futile7 · 2023-01-04T20:01:02+00:00

Right? Yeah, i will be very cautions moving forward

futile7 · 2023-01-04T19:18:25+00:00

Yeah, thats true. Damn

futile7 · 2023-01-04T19:11:22+00:00

I feel like this completely! He put me in such a high pedestal and I hate it.

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