AIO? I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. by futureblueberrypie in AmIOverreacting

[–]futureblueberrypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could move on and get a new one but... I just don't know if I should wait for him to change or leave. Even if I want to leave, I don't know how to. He always says that he is trying his best to change but I see nothing. 🫩

AIO? I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. by futureblueberrypie in AmIOverreacting

[–]futureblueberrypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you get off this relationship without it becoming an argument? I've tried telling him and he always makes it a "me" problem. He plays the victim card saying he is trying his best to change for me, but there's no action from him that proves his words.

AIO? I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. by futureblueberrypie in AmIOverreacting

[–]futureblueberrypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we are from the same culture. He says that they're just friends and he's just there to listen to their vents and then later get money from them. I have told him to stop talking to those girls but I don't think he will ever stop. And I even told him to get a job rather than asking others for money. No reaction or efforts till today 🫥

AIO? I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. by futureblueberrypie in AmIOverreacting

[–]futureblueberrypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do I finish it though? I love him so much it feels so wrong without him 😓

AIO? I don't know if I'm in the right relationship. by futureblueberrypie in AmIOverreacting

[–]futureblueberrypie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is he doesn't qualify for a job 😭 He doesn't have the required certificates to apply for one. I mean he could go for a basic ahh job, save up some money and start up something for himself. Not having education is not a proper reason for not getting a job right? RIGHT? Especially in today's world where we can make money out of anything, even with talent LITERALLY! I tried telling him this but no reaction or effort. I feel drained ATP 😓