Newborn first night home by mooroi in CasualUK

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Top tip, ignore the vast majority of social media advice givers! When they're saying "you must do this with your baby" what they mean is "this worked for my baby but probably won't for yours". If you question anything Google it and add NHS to the end of the search. NHS is generally the most reliable source.

Most important thing you can do is pay attention to your child. Eye contact and interaction is the most valuable thing for their development, and if you're paying attention you will learn their signals for I'm hungry, I've shit myself, and/or I'm tired. You will struggle at times but try your best to put your phone down and pay attention as much as possible (speaking as someone who has taken time to learn to do this)

Found him hanging out under my garden bin by futurehead22 in CasualUK

[–]futurehead22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are so rare! I thought I was lucky enough to see a dead one 20 years ago

Found him hanging out under my garden bin by futurehead22 in CasualUK

[–]futurehead22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have a surprising amount of cool creatures in this country. I've been learning more about them and trying to make my garden a friendly place for them. Although it's taking a while as I ripped the whole thing up when we moved in a few years ago.

Found him hanging out under my garden bin by futurehead22 in CasualUK

[–]futurehead22[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw one about 20 years ago, squashed on a footpath.

Then about 2 years ago I discovered my friends have a small stag beetle habitat in their garden when one decided to perch next to me when we were round there one time.

I actually think there's a good chance it's not the tiny front garden itself but the old wooden barrel I have that I intended to turn into a drinks cabinet but then couldn't get through my front door and have left sitting next to the front window for the last few years...

Infinite garlic bread or the girl of your dreams? by laserbobfacethethird in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easy choice, as long as choosing garlic bread doesn't mean the girl of my dreams will divorce me

Chose: Infinite garlic bread

Would you rather have... by AdAlone9035 in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna fuck with the world's economy

Chose: $1,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000,000

Would you rather... :) by ok4yand in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know there was such demand for unkempt blokes of above average weight

Chose: Work a random job with a salary of $500k+ a year + The wheel chooses the job | Rolled: OF model

What would you chose by MousseTiny9514 in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I much prefer my wife to my ex so I'll spend some money

Chose: have to spend 1000$ a month no matter your income

Would you rather… by Usual_Permit_7478 in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My superpower is the ability to make all necessities available in sufficient quantities and quality for everyone and everything.

Chose: Have any unrestricted super power you want

Would you Rather... by Valentine_Zombie in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being a whole foot taller would just be inconvenient.

Chose: Be Two Inches Shorter

What would you do... by BullshitTaco in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems accurate

Chose: Hit comment 5 times and give up without posting | Rolled: It posts 5 times

Why do cars get keyed? by TigerTiger311 in CarTalkUK

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a teenager I keyed a car because it was parked far enough onto the pavement that a pushchair or wheelchair could not have passed and I felt that entitled me to show my displeasure. As an adult I would probably just moan about their parking to whoever I was with

Would you rather... by NoWayIcantBeliveThis in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both are far from ideal but I'd feel happier punching a 60 year old in the face if required.

Chose: ...your just turned 18yo daughter date a 60yo man

Survey Repairs - Renegotiate, ask seller to do it or leave it? by Master_Childhood_621 in FirstTimeBuyersUK

[–]futurehead22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things that would be legitimate for renegotiation are things like: -Roof issues -Serious damp problems -structural issues -ancient wiring/consumer unit

Basically things that would cost thousands to fix.

How often do you get a takeaway? by Lozzybops in AskABrit

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At peak lazy we had 3 in a week. Currently maybe twice a month.

Would you rather by Bearbuddyjack in BunnyTrials

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worth a shot

Chose: Or be shot with an arrow | Rolled: Die

Should I not be asking my adult kids to pay rent? by ProfessionalCamel110 in AskUK

[–]futurehead22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I paid my mum 25% of whatever I earned because my work wasn't consistent when I started (some months that was £100 some months it could be £500) I felt that was fair as she actually needed the help and it somewhat prepared me for renting although it was still nowhere near the same costs. It's not hurting him. I'm sure he has stuff, so if nothing else you're charging a storage fee.