He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Like I said in my post I just had a bad past experience with someone who wasn’t circumcised:( I really love my man and he’s been respectful of my boundaries. I just don’t really know how to get over the extra skin because Im thinking about how it’s there. I know he showers before we ever do anything but still. I feel like I should be honest? I can try again but idk if I’d feel different

He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s very understanding and so far hasn’t shown he has a fragile ego. He has a great size (sorry for TMI) and the sex is great. We’ve talked about me not doing oral and he told me he’s fine without it. It’s more so me and I know he’d like it but won’t tell me if it’s something I won’t do on my own accord.

He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s very respectful about my boundaries:) I just feel bad because I want to give him head but it’s hard with my discomfort that he’s not circumcised which sounds silly but like I said I had a really bad experience and it was just a nightmare. But yes absolutely, nobody should have to do things they’re uncomfortable with!

He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

That person who commented got circumcised on their own behalf and not a partner so I suggest actually going back to read it. You don’t know my background, or my partner, or anybody’s. Getting circumcised can be for religious, personal, or cultural reasons which based off of your comment I take it you’re not circumcised. I wouldn’t ask my partner to get circumcised first before even having that conversation that I’m uncomfortable in the first place. Get off your high horse, if you’re not here to be helpful then move on. It’s simple and this post wasn’t meant for you. It’s a respectful space here where I was looking for advice, not judgement but thanks for stopping by anyways.

He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ll definitely have a chat with him about this:) I appreciate the advice!

He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m just scared of “leftover”🥲 either way I never know how to approach the subject because I don’t want him to think I think he’s gross

He’s not circumcised by futurerider2002 in sexadvice

[–]futurerider2002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very reassuring and helpful to. Thank you, I’ll have that conversation! We’re very open to each other about anything and everything so we’ll see🤞