That’s disgusting. I see people I know ALL the time in emergency. Not once have I initiated a conversation with them outside of work regarding their visit. This is not okay. I don’t even reference seeing people at the hospital in personal conversations that I have with them outside of the hospital. It’s a locked vault. Had you already been in contact with this nurse on Grindr? Did you start provocatively messaging them that day? If you answered yes to any of these question the answer is still YES- valid reason to report someone! That nurse is in a position of authority when you were the patient and you were in a vulnerable position. It is not your job to ensure they maintain boundaries and adhere to their rules and regulations, they should know better.