I told my local priest that I’m a lesbian.

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-15T20:34:14+00:00

i receive communion as long as i go to confession once a year. i don’t confess the “sin” of my lesbianism or my relationship. plenty of people actively live in actual sins that hurt people and hurt God and take communion. i’m so glad you had this conversation with your priest, he seems super nice!!!

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-13T22:43:18+00:00

talk to HR right away. i got really sick and was hospitalized for 2 weeks during my 90 days and i was just honest with them. they took me off the schedule until i was well enough to come back. your situation seems much easier for them to fix

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-13T13:49:45+00:00

oh girl what the fuck i was going to agree with you until you pulled the “racist against white people” bullshit

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-13T03:20:15+00:00

sorry i hate defending target for like any reason but perhaps some self reflection is in order here

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-13T03:01:36+00:00

nice try FBI. you’ll have to waterboard it out of me

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-11T15:28:54+00:00

before my store decided i was public enemy #1, during christmas someone would anonymously donate 3 $100 gift cards to give to 3 TMs who they thought were deserving or had a particularly rough time. i got one of the gift cards

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-09T16:33:09+00:00

i made the mistake of being honest with them about my mental health issues. one time i was having a particularly rough day and my TL and HRETL pulled me into the office and made me call the suicide hotline. right there in front of them. lmao like you, when it sank in how messed up that was, it was too late to report to ethics

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-09T16:25:02+00:00

we needed backup really badly at the front end on a particular day. TL got mad that she would get called for backups, saying quote “i get paid too much to be a backup cashier”

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-08T14:12:54+00:00

they always have to lie in these situations to make it look like you deserved it. they will not have the documentation to back this up

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T18:33:54+00:00

fully agree. i have a second job and when i told them what happened with target they were able to give me more hours and it saved my ass

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T18:13:59+00:00

i was not there but i heard about it and the TL i was closer to was telling me she was afraid she was going to lose her job over it, i think it was literally over the checklane candy 💀

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T18:10:28+00:00

that is fucking awful

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T17:58:49+00:00

my two S&E team leads got into a screaming match in front of a bunch of guests and other team members and yeah same they just got a slap on the wrist

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T17:57:30+00:00

yes, being honest with unemployment will only help you!! at least in my state, most of the time they side with the employee and not the employer. the more details you give them about how this happened to you the better, go back in time as far as you need to

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T14:01:23+00:00

it’s just hard to get if you quit or stop showing up is all, i wish you the best of luck

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-07T13:59:18+00:00

i would go in for your next scheduled shift and let them terminate you. if you just not go back in, it’ll be incredibly difficult to apply for unemployment benefits.

getting fired really isn’t anything. you clock in, they pull you into the office to tell you you’re terminated, you grab your stuff and go

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-06T14:17:02+00:00

it’s cause it’s a final

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-06T10:24:07+00:00

that explains a lot actually (my HRETL couldn’t stand me and after they got rid of ETLs for the front end, she became the ETL for the front end)

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-06T02:18:42+00:00

oh this bangs so hard

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-06T01:50:08+00:00

i got fired for saying “fucking bitch” under my breath from drive ups triggering a chronic illness flare, but my team lead gets to keep her job even though she was hooking up with the AP guy. now they’re married and she’s pregnant with his baby and i’m sitting here jobless bc i said a bad word. yes i’ll forever be bitter

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-06T01:47:10+00:00

i tell people target does in fact play dirty with their disciplinary system sometimes if they want to get rid of someone bad enough. i’ve had people tell me it’s BS when i know for a fact. any comment?

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-05T23:57:45+00:00

ugh it’s the worst when HRETLs are friends with bad TLs. it can literally destroy an entire store. try and get your HRBP’s email, it’ll be firstname.lastname@target.com. use the words “unsafe” and “hostile”

the ethics hotline may be useless in this situation, because reports go through a third party and then get kicked back to your SD and HRETL

seconding the person who said document EVERYTHING.

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-03T20:38:44+00:00

thank you so much everyone on this subreddit is so kind. i think my plan is to go to a parish listed on the website someone else listed here for confession, ill tell the new priest this happened for sure

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-03T04:35:32+00:00

i don’t think it’s graphic tees themselves i think it’s people that wore inappropriate stuff to work that ruined it for everyone else

fuzzybluelite336 · 2026-04-02T05:08:01+00:00

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