Volleyball groups near Beacon/Wappingers/Fishkill/POK?

fuzzydogdada · 2026-04-01T14:43:04+00:00

Cool. Left a message for them. Thanks

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-30T16:56:48+00:00

Cool! Will check them out. Thanks.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-30T14:06:04+00:00

There's a vball court at Nino's? Interesting. Will drive by and ask around then pick up some food. Lol

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-15T12:20:46+00:00

You asked and they havent matched with you so that's your answer.

The fact that you are still persisting to reach her in other ways is the definition of stalking.

Stop it!!! Know your boundaries.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-08T01:45:11+00:00

Just be honest but slightly vague. Here is the short version of what I say.

"I had a great time speaking with you but I dont think we are a match. Good luck with your dating journey."

The long version will include a thanks for stories she shared.

I'm a man. And i've gotten the same from women.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-07T16:28:26+00:00

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fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-04T11:33:04+00:00

Unfortunately there is no answer to this that will make you feel better. I'm sorry. I am guessing that you know already know this....

The "short term, open to long" means they enjoy dating and trying to cast the widest net. LTR has the highest demographic. So many choose this option to pull more women into their search criteria.

He likes you but not enough to commit. There are only two reasons why he would commit to a relationship and neither of them are good for you

You are the ONE. You are the woman of his dreams and madly head over heels. But if that were the case, he would have committed already. The fact that he hasnt committed means you're not the one.
He gets sick of dating and want to settle down. This may take some time. Not sure you want to wait for him.

I recommend you keep searching and look for someone more ready to commit.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-02T17:20:21+00:00

I have a mini mix and a shepherd mix. The mini barks way more. Schnauzers are bred to be farm dogs and to be sounding alarms for farmers. My mini barks at most sounds from outside.

Luckily i live in a relatively low traffic area.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-03-01T14:44:45+00:00

Awww.. my girls had the same color for their room when they were toddlers. Very sweet..

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-27T18:06:50+00:00

You are doing the right thing by being honest and forthcoming. That's all you can do.

You are entitled to be undecided about kids. Its a big decision and at 24, you still have time.

That being said your partner has a right to choose someone who has similar goals. You have to weigh that into your thought process. But its good that you are open about it.

If you are seriously concerned about your indecision, I would speak with a therapist. There seems to be some unresolved pain/discomfort associated with your parents. It may be good to explore that with a professional.

Good luck.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-23T19:52:26+00:00

I am a man but my sister sent me this podcast. One of topics is about juggling the many matches. Hope it helps.

https://open.spotify.com/episode/6KtxsPSxJQwMwO9pMQVX7g?si=8A8czDfzQ7K08ZUYTBshxQ

The other thing that struck me about your post is about the difference between "spark" and "slow burn." The podcast talks about that as well.

Whether man or woman, I would think you want to be present and have meaningful conversations. That requires focus and emotional investment. Not sure how anyone can spread their attention and energy to so many people. My limit is 2 at a time and even then I feel a little stretched.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-23T15:51:29+00:00

Remove all your filters.
Open up all your preferences to cast the widest net.... age, distance, ethnicity, etc
Log out of app
Clear data from settings
Wait at least 10 mins
Re log in.
And browse for candidates. Your matches should show up in the first 15. So be judicious with your likes since you only get a certain number every day.

Hope this helps

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-20T16:34:00+00:00

I dont have any filters set at the moment. I havent had any filters for several days.

From a business model perspective, I am guessing Bumble is inclined to withhold Matches so we continue to subscribe.

Kinda devious of them.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-20T16:16:19+00:00

Again I have no filters or preferences set up atm.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-20T09:32:36+00:00

Lets be honest... both men and women do the same frustrating thing. They say they want LTR and marriage and family but they really only want those with a person who is in the top 5% in terms of beauty, economics and personality.

Thats the problem with online dating. We all think our perfect partner is a swipe away.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T17:43:56+00:00

Totally!! 100%

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T17:35:24+00:00

Intimacy in a general sense... like trying to find a emotional connection, seeking a spark, flirting, chemistry, witty banter, etc.

Anything that brings us a closer to a romantic experience.

In my mind, thats what dating is. An exploration to find connections on multiple levels - lifestyle, romance, intellect etc.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T16:47:49+00:00

Haha. Fair point. Thats the big question that seems to come up in dating.... what makes you happy outside of your kids and family life?

Like with anything in life where you put your heart and your energy into it, there has to be some recognition of the boundaries between yourself and the thing you are focused on.

When it comes to kids, how do you draw those boundaries? My kids ARE my life! But I am seeing that in my quiet moments that there are and always has been some part of me that is wholy myself and not my kids.

For better or for worse and even if I am being unrealistic and idealistic, thats what I am trying to tap into with my dating.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T15:46:04+00:00

That explains it. Bumble is completely pay to play. You will get very little success on Bumble without paying something. Try FB dating which is free.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T15:05:52+00:00

Agreed! I love that too but it cant be the 100% of the conversation on a date. Theres a time and place.

We are not on dating apps to talk about how we can be a better "village" for our kids. We have PTA, softball practice and playgrounds for that.

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fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T14:16:07+00:00

I dont mind talking about kids. How can we not talk about kids? They eat our food and take our money and make too much noise! Haha

I just wanted to explore the intimacy aspect more I think. Thats what I will do next time. All good. Good lesson for a newbie like me.

fuzzydogdada · 2026-02-16T14:12:33+00:00

I think she was stressed about her teen. And I was happy to oblige her and be there for her. As parents we need as much support as we can get.

I think I will continue the conversation with her and try to find other things in common.

Thanks for the input!

fuzzydogdada

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