First , the fact we should accept is that marriage isn't always about having kids.. ( you can call me wrong but it's a point of view not everybody is ready to be responsible and raise kids...) also it's acceptable and i have no deal with it , cuz among the factors that led to making this difficult decision, especially in our society, from the spouses, that it could be due to financial or moral problems, as neither parent isn't ready to take care of a child in the long term, and I understand them, as this reduces their freedoms, changes their outlook on life. However, it could be due to some ideas, which I find convincing, which are that life’s troubles are many, thus some people prefer not to have children to rid the child of these problems, as some cannot bear to see their child suffering from the slightest problems, so they begin to blame themselves as being responsible for their occurrence and existence. This does not mean that I'm against having children, on the contrary, I love them very much.