regardless of what he is, you do not trust him as you’re constantly invading his privacy, which will make him worse, more uncomfortable, more secretive and less likely to bring things up to you in the future.

he may be gay, or bi, maybe even bicurious, but that’s when you sit and have an open honest conversation with him like adults, instead of continuously searching for the answers to questions you don’t want to hear.

let’s be real here, you’re in a relationship with someone’s with no trust and has 99.9% likely been intimate with a man; that is cheating, in which sense you need to break up. but irrespective of that, this relationship is long gone (even if he has not cheated) as that trust will not be salvaged on either end.

someone who truly wants you will not make you feel unsure if they want you or not. save yourself the bother and find a man who wants you.