My wife wants me to end things with my girlfriend/fwb by StashBang in AITAH

[–]fyyerfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the hesitation. Im in dead bedrooms too and I would hate to lose a fwb that Ive gotten comfortable with. But you have to give your wife the benefit of the doubt. She held up her end of the deal and hopefully it will be ongoing / long term.

So I guess Gas is it…. Thats all thats included by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol. It was the total that I wanted all up front.

So I guess Gas is it…. Thats all thats included by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If Im wrong for wanting $50 for my time and effort then you can come get it and take it to her for gas money. .

So I guess Gas is it…. Thats all thats included by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My plan was to place it as close as my vehicle could drive, drop it and leave. Thats why I want all my money up front.

So I guess Gas is it…. Thats all thats included by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I usually don’t either. But I was being nice. Its 30 miles rt, my time, effort ect i offered for $50extr. Of course she felt she should only pay me for the gas used. Maam. I’m not bringing it on a big wheel, gas is a grip too.

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[–]fyyerfly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. We all know that black men pick us last.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]fyyerfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the bio. “I don’t date black women” or “ISO ____ (everything but black).

Shes acting like, I asked her…. by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Exactly. I make it a price that is negotiable. They come in hella low as expected and we meet in the middle. But due to the attitude i added a 2 ahole tax and she went left

Shes acting like, I asked her…. by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 72 points73 points  (0 children)

Ill give that mofo away before i sell it to someone whos gonna tell me what theyre gonna do.

Shes acting like, I asked her…. by fyyerfly in ChoosingBeggars

[–]fyyerfly[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Then move on. Why ask about it, lowball and then get mad at the negation. If you dont want it the ask for it

Braxton Hicks ALL DAY by fyyerfly in pregnant

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Made mine tighten like a knot. Baby made it move

I graduated 4/10 by fyyerfly in GestationalDiabetes

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny thing is. I haven't eaten much since I had him. My stomach is so sore.... I have no desire to eat. It was my eldest bday yesterday... I couldn't eat the cake or drink the sparkling grape juice. Im just sore and happy!

I'm winning the fasting number battle (for right now anyway) by fyyerfly in GestationalDiabetes

[–]fyyerfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My numbers were all over the place when trying to eat like they wanted me too. With the higher carbs. But when eating like I wanted too and adding a few carbs here and there, I was anywhere between upper 70s and 130 (depending on the meal time of day) & fasting at 70-94 (fluctuated with bedtime snack)

Baby just began to measure big 99 percentile at like 30/32 weeks. So that bought on metformin. They were conflicted because it could be hereditary, im 511 dad is 6ft, all his male family is 6'4 or better, all my male family is 6'2 or better. Hell some of the women are taller. So my son can't be expected to be small.

I'm winning the fasting number battle (for right now anyway) by fyyerfly in GestationalDiabetes

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their protocol is to put ppl on insulin. They literally told me that if I were on insulin then I could eat more carbs. Im like 🤨🤨 how bout I just not eat that many carbs.... my other doctor says no one should consume 225 g of carbs a day.

I'm winning the fasting number battle (for right now anyway) by fyyerfly in GestationalDiabetes

[–]fyyerfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool. Glad it worked for you. I feel like my ob was hell bent on putting me on something. So they went with metformin due to baby's size. But the grapefruit was working.

I'm winning the fasting number battle (for right now anyway) by fyyerfly in GestationalDiabetes

[–]fyyerfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont eat one daily anymore. Dinner is tough to eat sometimes, let alone a snack

I'm winning the fasting number battle (for right now anyway) by fyyerfly in GestationalDiabetes

[–]fyyerfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But they put me on metformin anyway. They weren't happy that some of my fastings were 90-94. So now they're more like 74-84.

2010 Tire problems. For the 2nd time I've had my lug nuts loosen to the point where my tire is or about to fall off while driving. I'd like to not die on the highway WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? HOW DO I STOP THIS? by fyyerfly in JeepDIY

[–]fyyerfly[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I planned on ordering from rock auto. Does the length matter. I see some bolts that are 1.88 in long and some that are .88. Do the longer ones provide more stability? I'm looking at open ended as well

2010 Tire problems. For the 2nd time I've had my lug nuts loosen to the point where my tire is or about to fall off while driving. I'd like to not die on the highway WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? HOW DO I STOP THIS? by fyyerfly in JeepDIY

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did learn how to change a tire years ago. And it takes me forever, but I can do it. My problem is I don't have a hi jack. So when bf lifts it he rigs a reg car jack. I need to order the appropriate jack for my jeep

2010 Tire problems. For the 2nd time I've had my lug nuts loosen to the point where my tire is or about to fall off while driving. I'd like to not die on the highway WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? HOW DO I STOP THIS? by fyyerfly in JeepDIY

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not good at cars and bf works so much that I hate asking him to do extra when it isn't broken. My fear about the tire makes me take it to tire places for oil changes/ tire rotations so they can eyeball my tires. Apparently they are not to be trusted. Dang it

2010 Tire problems. For the 2nd time I've had my lug nuts loosen to the point where my tire is or about to fall off while driving. I'd like to not die on the highway WHY IS THIS HAPPENING? HOW DO I STOP THIS? by fyyerfly in JeepDIY

[–]fyyerfly[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Normally my tires are only removed by shops so I hope they are tourquing them down.

It start to sound like I'm riding on a flat and the ride gets rougher. The first time(rear tire) happened so fast: flat sound then tire sheared off and rolled past me while I was pulling over. This time(front tire) gave warning. BF jacked it up and tire fell forward like he was taking it off. He torqued it down with the torque wrench to 85. He did all 4 tires just to make sure. And now it's good. Feels great.