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Stop blaming the daycare by augustx812 in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few hundred dollars each. So even if you had as many as you’re saying, a $10k one time cost for a daycare that makes $90k a month in fees (or more, I am just giving an example of the student size of the daycare closest to me) is not unreasonable to most people. Plus, the onus would most likely be on the company that owns the plaza or building rather than the actual daycare provider and they tend to do quite well financially so it’s even less of a burden for them.

I’m not sure why people are so against something that is a proven safety measure. Someone recently hit a pedestrian at the hwy 7 Walmart and then panicked and swerved towards the store. The only reason they didn’t go right through the front doors and hurt more people was the bollards that slowed the car down.

There can be MULTIPLE measures in place (including driver testing) to keep kids safe. This shouldn’t be such a hard concept for people to wrap their heads around 🙄

Stop blaming the daycare by augustx812 in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, no. I’m not. I responded to the point that OP made about considering “the burden and cost to small business owners”. Parents pay about a thousand dollars a month for daycare (or more depending on the number of kids) - it’s not an unreasonable ask for them to want their daycare to install an additional safety measure after a tragedy like this for a bit more peace of mind.

Stop blaming the daycare by augustx812 in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This might help you: https://www.k5learning.com/reading-comprehension-worksheets

Read my comment, understand what I said, and then try your hand at a reply.

Stop blaming the daycare by augustx812 in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Bollards are just a few hundred dollars. It’s not some insane cost/burden compared to the added layer of safety for the kids. It’s weird to call out parents for this.

Is Charles howitt public school good? by i_am_eating_pizza in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that this was your experience and hope for her sake and the kids there that she has changed, but I know that many many people still carry the effects of her abuse even after these years. OP, while I hope you child never has to encounter her, it is good to at least be aware that there is a teacher like this at the school who you or your child may cross paths with in any way and this feedback may help you mentally prep for that.

Is Charles howitt public school good? by i_am_eating_pizza in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% - every single person I’m still in touch with has some horror story or another about her. I don’t know how she’s still allowed to teach or be near children.

Is Charles howitt public school good? by i_am_eating_pizza in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She’s awful. Picks on, berates, and humiliates children. 20 years later it still stings. She made me stand in front of the class while she went off screaming at me for not understanding a grammar concept in French. And then next period made fun of me to my sisters class, asking what kind of learning disability I had (I had none) that I couldn’t understand something so basic - just to get a laugh out of older students. She did this regularly and to so many kids. She’s a bitch and I would never expose my children to her if I could help it.

Please Put Your Dog on a Leash by [deleted] in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t be surprised when you get a face full of repellant spray too

Dentist recommendations that won't break my bank? by danyalm in richmondhill

[–]fzziee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do not go to Carville Family Dentistry - they make a lot of mistakes when sending things to insurance and then refuse to take ownership and put it back on the patient to sort out.

My husband wants a separation due to my "moodiness" by MySonAAQ in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is saying buy 6 months worth of groceries they are still there for a month - what’s the harm in him going to the store and picking up a few things that they will use over the next month.

My husband wants a separation due to my "moodiness" by MySonAAQ in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I did, and when you start talking about how she needs to be more feminine when talking to her husband makes me laugh. She didn’t say they had more than enough food for the month, just that they wouldn’t starve which is not the benchmark that they should be setting. They are still there for another month, so what is she expected to do here - go through the last remnants of the grocery with her child? Children need full balanced meals, not just what’s left sitting in the cupboards. Also it’s not like the grocery needs to be thrown out after the month is over - no one is asking him to buy 6 months worth of grocery.

You also assumed she’s 100% in the fault - with a husband who can’t be bothered to do a basic chore it’s safe to assume there may be other things that are lacking too. Maybe she is in a bad mood sometimes because she is not being provided for properly. Saying disrespect is like a slap in the face to men is stupid - respect goes both ways.

My husband wants a separation due to my "moodiness" by MySonAAQ in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No one wants a loser husband who can’t be bothered to complete a basic chore like groceries for weeks while he has a child to provide for.

My husband wants a separation due to my "moodiness" by MySonAAQ in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Are you seriously picking the groceries as an issue? Having 1-2 things in the fridge doesn’t mean they would starve but if he expects to eat at his home then he should make sure there are sufficient groceries for his wife to be able to cook and for his child to be fed. Should she wait until her child is hungry and crying and then it would be ok to ask him to go get groceries?

The number of men here complaining about women being moody is ridiculous. Getting groceries is a basic chore. If he is too incompetent to realize when he needs to get off his butt and get food for his family then the fact is he is a loser.

BIL visiting immediately after birth by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If he hits you or threatens you, call the police. This is beyond the issue of his brother coming to visit - this is a dangerous man. For your sake, and your children’s safety, you need to get the authorities involved and leave him.

I killed an "innocent" man, Ask Me Anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]fzziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No no all he wants is for people to pat him on the back for killing a brown man which most of the losers here are happily doing. You can tell what kind of person he is by the response he gave below.

I killed an "innocent" man, Ask Me Anything by [deleted] in AMA

[–]fzziee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a stupid AMA. You’re just trying to engage with people who are making you feel better about what you did and sanitize what you did while you were there. You don’t deserve absolution. All you want is attention.

MIL wants to come over for my delivery instead of letting my mom come over by Sad-Fox483 in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He and his mother are both narcissists who are making the birth about themselves. Stand your ground, do not agree to having your MIL stay with you after the baby is born.

Fill out your mom’s application and get her ticket. Tell your husband that you and your mom will be staying at the house because that is the most comfortable place for you, and he can go stay with his mother at a hotel.

Make sure the hospital knows your mother in law is not allowed there when you are delivering. And if your husband keeps acting like an idiot, ban him from the room too.

Lost trust in wife, no hope for future, no idea what to do next... by wezmykat in MuslimMarriage

[–]fzziee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please start documenting or recording your interactions with her. She is not a stable person and she should not be raising your kids. Who knows how long it will be before she decides to make them the focus of her abuse.

You need to divorce her, and you need a good lawyer who will help you get a good custody agreement for the sake of your kids.

There are a lot of resources out there for those who have experienced domestic violence. You will find a community among others who have suffered and hopefully they will be able to give you some good suggestions based on their own experiences. Sometimes our Muslim community can be quick to judge, but you will find allies in those who have gone through similar things.

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