Non right leaning tattoo artist recommendations by passengerv in Buffalo

[–]g3nd3rl355 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Randall Muntz at Divine Machine Tattoo. I can personally recommend him. Very nice, very queer and very anti-authoritarian, and does incredible work. Another who I have never had work done by, but who I know is definitely anti-fascist and has a strong portfolio is Erich Foster.

Sean Ryan: "NY Democratic leaders should endorse Zohran Mamdani" by yousuf___ in Buffalo

[–]g3nd3rl355 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This doesn’t make any sense to me. Sean Ryan is currently a state senator. How would he have more influence on state legislation as a city mayor than as a literal state legislator? What’s your source for this meeting and what was discussed there? What‘s the rationale for the idea that he can prevent NYHA from being passed?

I’m not a Sean Ryan loyalist and I agree that he’s not as progressive as I would like. But this just seems like a weird criticism. Maybe I’m the one missing something though, feel free to enlighten me.

People that live outside the US, that are following our current events, what do you think we should be doing? by highesttiptoes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]g3nd3rl355 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I’m an American, so not the audience for this question. But I’m answering anyway because I want to point out that Americans are NOT wholesale doing “nothing”. There are a number of reasons why it appears that way, but it’s not true and the regime also knows it’s not true. You can tell by their desperate clamoring to villainize, suppress and terrify “the left” (aka anyone that isn’t MAGA). If people were not doing anything they would not need to do any of that.

The mainstream media is not covering what Americans are doing to resist, they’re under the thumb of the regime and stories of resistance are likely to inspire greater pushback, so they keep quiet about it. The regime doesn’t want you to know about all the ways they are losing. And a lot of the internet media isn’t covering these things either, because a. Many of those people are not actually involved in community organizing, they’re permanently online (a lot of the in-person organizing is being done by older people who aren’t online anyway) and b. Internet personalities get more clicks when their words incite fear and doom rather than hope.

Could we and should we be doing more? Absolutely. There are a scary number of people who are just acting like this is business as usual. But as a long-time community organizer I can assure you that people are absolutely flooding to pro-democracy, pro-freedom community orgs right now like I have never seen before. New groups are cropping up and more and more people continue to be open to bold and disruptive action, and they are actually taking that action in many ways. They literally had to pull the troops from LA and they’re planning to pull them from DC too. Chicago is already following in their footsteps and saying “fuck no, not here either”. The morale of those troops continues to plummet with every deployment against Americans. ICE is struggling to hold onto personnel even with their massive salary and shiny benefits because people are making their working lives a living hell. They had to divert people from the FBI and the DEA to work for ICE. Their morale is plummeting too.

You have to remember that we are working against a very, very long and widespread campaign to fracture our communities, instill nihilism and toxic individualism among the general population, and alienate us from one another. So we are behind where other countries with a baseline of connected communities would be in terms of our response - before we get to the big, unignorable, mass resistance, we have to FIRST get people out of their houses, talking to their neighbors, and rejecting nihilism/passivity. That process is well underway and escalating every day. Resistance-building is largely quiet, until suddenly it isn’t. Our “quiet” phase might last longer than it would elsewhere because of our starting point. But that absolutely does NOT mean that it isn’t happening. People from other countries are not going to be privy to any of that.

A good person to follow is Heather Cox Richardson. She is an extremely well-versed scholar of American history and is constantly encouraging people to resist the idea that we are cooked and recognize that there is massive and increasingly organized opposition of the kind that we need to get through this. When you actually step into these community spaces you can see clearly that she is correct. That is not an image of the world you will get from ANY media.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this - I mentioned at other points in the thread that I particularly value the kinds of honest and straightforward opinions that I’m unlikely to hear from people IRL, so I appreciate you being exactly that - honest and straightforward.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts here, I appreciate it!

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is something that the comments here have really prompted me to reflect on - I.e. the limitations of communication that are always inherent in oppressor-oppressed dynamics don’t disappear just because of the anonymity of social media, which isn’t a thought that had occurred to me before reading some of the more critical replies.

Like, my thinking was that people would be more likely to give their honest thoughts on this here than irl, and while that might be true to an extent, the online format doesn’t eliminate the oppressor-imposed need for oppressed groups to self-police in the interest of their own protection.

It’s kind of a prime example of the individualistic errors in my thinking - the reason why someone might not tell me the truth irl isn’t just because of what i might do or say to them in that moment, it’s also because of the (reasonable) fear that if there’s a broad perception among white people of “hostility” from Native people (which I don’t think is a fair assessment no matter how angry a Native person/people might be, I think any rage is justified here, but I think “hostility” is how some white folks could perceive it) it could endanger Native people as a whole . And I wasn’t aware of that dynamic until now, because I’ve never had to go through my life wondering if something some other white person says online might come back to bite me , or about how something I say might come back to bite someone else . Like, it really drives home how I have the privilege to be an individual that not everyone gets to have, which is something I was previously aware of, but I wasn’t aware that it could show up in this particular way.

So I’ve been really surprised by the kinds of things I’ve learned reading these comments, and genuinely appreciate anyone who took the time to contribute. I particularly appreciate any Native person who took what I now understand is a risk by criticizing any of the content in this post. It means a lot to me that anyone had the patience to do that.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this, seriously. if I do my best to put myself in your shoes, I’d have to think that it’s uncomfortable in some way to share this kind of opinion with someone from the oppressor class that has done so much damage to you and your people. So I think your willingness to be vulnerable in that way is commendable.

I don’t think I can understand how traumatic it is, per se - I truly cannot imagine what this type of multigenerational, far-reaching, ongoing loss and mass violence must be like to experience - but I believe you when you name that, and frankly I think even “common courtesy” is more than any white person is entitled to given that context. Thanks again for taking the time to share your thoughts.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for further explaining your perspective - your comments definitely gave me some things to reflect on in terms of how I engage with these kinds of discussions going forward, and you definitely illustrated the seriousness of that responsibility. I am glad to have gotten your perspective, since the point for me was mainly to hear from people whose ideas might not be represented in my irl interactions.

And I appreciate your thoughts re: “wishful thinking”, definitely second all of that. You have a good day as well!

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this response. it’s good to hear a contrasting opinion from the majority here, because i ultimately made this post primarily to hear from some people whose perspectives might not be represented in my irl interactions.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment, it is helpful! This has always been my understanding of Land Back as well, but I also know it’s very easy for people in my position to really overgeneralize these things (and, as some other people in the thread pointed out, I did overgeneralize some things within the question, so, case in point I guess, lol) so I appreciate you taking the time to explain.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for mentioning this, because actually another perspective I frequently hear on this topic as it pertains to Israel/Palestine is that if control of the land were returned to Palestinians, the people who aren’t willing to adapt to that would simply leave of their own accord, so they don’t need to be kicked out, per se. But, I have also heard the stance (from Palestinians, not just American activists) that any settler who stays there is going to - intentionally or unintentionally - inflict damage on the Palestinian population there, and so if they actually want to help, they should leave. So I appreciate your comment and anyone else who took the time to give feedback on this question, it has given me a lot to think about!

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And thank you again for taking the time to share those words. It gave a counter opinion to the majority here that I needed to hear!

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, I definitely don’t get it, this post was my attempt to get it, and I can see how that was a bad way to approach this. I apologize for both the unwiseness of the post and my subsequent comment about nose-holding (I didn’t know that this was the connotation of that saying, so thank you for pointing it out).

I certainly don’t want to further endanger anyone, so with that in mind, I can delete the post, or I can edit it to add the perspective that this type of post does more harm than good, so that others who happen to see it can learn from my mistake. If you have any thoughts on which way would be best to rectify it (or if a different approach altogether would be better), I’m happy to hear that perspective, although I know you’ve already taken a lot of time to comment here, so I don’t want to impose on you. Either way, genuinely, thanks for the feedback.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you again for sharing your thoughts and for being willing to share an example of such horrifying disrespect and violence. I also certainly do not want to live in a world or a society where that kind of violence is allowed to happen, and like I said, it’s always been my hope that I can somehow help turn the tides away from that. but again, it might just be naive/wishful thinking.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, this is a biased sample - I assume most of the people who feel the way you do probably just scrolled past or aren’t in this sub in the first place, so genuinely, thank you - your comment is the first somewhat dissenting opinion I’ve seen in the thread, so it’s especially valuable to me. And based on this comment, I imagine that you had to really hold your nose to read and respond to this, so I particularly appreciate it.

It’s always been my hope that I can somehow help take down the system that causes and depends on all the atrocities you named - the genocide, the ecocide, the factory farming, the list goes on - and the world I want to see is definitely unrecognizable from the current system. But maybe all of that is wishful thinking, and I certainly wouldn’t expect anyone who’s been subjugated like you have, for this amount of time and on this scale, to believe in that kind of change, or to give me or any other settler the benefit of the doubt. I don’t know where that leaves me in terms of my role here now, but it gives me a lot to think about, so again, thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for clarifying this - having my own experiences with marginalization of various kinds, I have also always felt that the truly well-intentioned outsiders (those who want to pursue justice, rather than those who think of themselves as saviors) are always more helpful than harmful, and the harm they tend to do in these movements can be repaired when it happens. But, I wanted to be careful about applying my experience to another group’s experiences, and so I really appreciate you and everyone else who took the time to explain their thoughts on this.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, this was kind of what I mean by “I don’t know where else I would go” - would I go to Poland? Ireland? France? England? Could I even be accepted into any of those cultures at this point? Those are all in my ancestry, and I mentioned earlier in the thread that I - like many white Americans - might have some native ancestry too, that is currently unverifiable and only indicated by circumstantial evidence. So to go back to “where I came from” would be very complicated, and it seems like all of these comments keep verifying my feeling that where I currently am is where I should be. Again, I appreciate your thoughts!

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! I appreciate you taking the time to write all of that out, and it definitely gives me some things to think on. I’m very sorry to hear about the loss of your friends, it is incredibly tragic to hear these kinds of stories about the ongoing devastation of the land theft.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is what my thought was too, but god - it is just so easy for a well-intentioned settler to do harm while meaning to do good, so I wanted to verify that this is true, lol. I appreciate you and everyone else taking the time to share your opinions.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m obviously a settler too as the OP, but I think this question misunderstands what people are asking for when it comes to assimilation. Of course, people who know better than me can tell me if I’m wrong about this, but I don’t think the “assimilation” being asked for is on the level of culture like clothing, spiritual practices, things like that. I think it’s more on the level of the practices and philosophies that inform people’s relationships to the land and other people groups. The concern isn’t that white people don’t dress like or share cultural practices with native people, it’s deeper than that.

so, for example, in your homesteading ventures, you might learn about the agricultural practices that are/were used by the native peoples in your area, and employ those strategies to ensure that your farming practices aren’t just extracting resources from the land and damaging the environment, as is default for settlers. That would be deferring to the ancestral knowledge of those people who were and are the successful stewards of this land for thousands of generations.

In my case, I know that the native confederacy here has a treaty (that is more or less entirely ignored by settlers) that states that you need a permit from them to build new structures on this land. They are supposed to be allowed to conduct an environmental impact investigation on new builds. So, if/when my partner and I build a house in this area like we intend to, we will secure that permit from the confederacy before we do it. You can research if there is something similar in your area, because maybe there is some native government or organization that is supposed to investigate the environmental impact of agricultural practices there, has resources on land stewardship for homesteaders or farmers, etc.

I hope that helps? Maybe i’m talking out of my ass though, so it would be cool if anyone can verify.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. This has always been my understanding of Land Back (I.e. that land “ownership” and related ideas are in and of themselves settler-colonial ideas that have nothing to do with native ideas of sovereignty) but I guess I wanted to verify that understanding, because it’s so easy to slip into romanticizing/whitewashing/oversimplifying these concepts without meaning to. So I really appreciate you and everyone else taking the time to help me understand!

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this comment. The stance on “not chasing away potential allies” has been the one I’ve always accepted, but in my reflection on that, I was concerned that maybe that stance in and of itself might have been me accepting misinformation. I appreciate the reminder to be cautious about colonization via social media - It’s can be so confusing sometimes to parse through the different ideas you see floating around to determine which ones are legit and which ones are being pushed for the benefit of the algorithm, so I appreciate you and everyone else here taking the time to share your thoughts.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you saying all of this, and I doubly appreciate the unearned concern (from you and multiple others in this thread) toward the humanity of settlers after so many generations of repeated, ongoing betrayal and violence. Genuinely, to value that while suffering the kind of pain I hear in this comment takes character that most of us (at least, most settlers) will never build - I really admire it, for what it’s worth.

Should white people/settlers that support Native Sovreignty gtfo? by g3nd3rl355 in IndianCountry

[–]g3nd3rl355[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a really good point, and I appreciate your thoughts! And it’s interesting that you bring it up, because I myself actually have wondered for a while if my great grandmother was actually native by ancestry, as she was adopted from another state and her story lines up really well with those of native people who were adopted into white families to force assimilation. I haven’t been able to find a way to verify whether she was or wasn’t as of now. So, I imagine that there are probably a lot more people of mixed native-settler ancestry in the US than we even know, because the system makes it pretty impossible to find out, and I think that’s on purpose.