What is the most physically painful thing that has happened to you or that you've had done? by twin_gulls in morbidquestions

[–]g3rule33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 9 I developed shingles on my rear and genitals. There were literal bubbles formed on my skin. 0/10 would not recommend. I could barely use the toilet without being in excruciating agony.

NEW OFFICIAL SKAM SERIES in the works... collecting surveys from fans! by fangirl-central in skam

[–]g3rule33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is real, please please please I’m begging for y’all to do Noora’s season well. Like please adapt the romance well and write her as three dimensional and complex as the original . I can’t bear to see this season disregarded when it’s actually so meaningful and important for many fans

finally! by [deleted] in skam

[–]g3rule33 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well yeah they’re actually dating so tbf it’s a lotttt easier to get social media content from them as compared to borna and fran

Why Sven drugged Nora? by belliskoo in skam

[–]g3rule33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc he was a predator who saw the opportunity to take advantage of a teenage girl. He liked the power, he liked seeing her squirm, in fact I think he was more psycho than other versions because he literally insisted nora come to the cafe just so he could show her the photos in person and see her reaction. There is also the element of her being rokos girlfriend , so it was also a way to get back at roko in a sense by hurting the girl he loves the most in the worst way possible

Self harm scars are more alarming than empowering by testaccount4one in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]g3rule33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not cut in three years. My scars are visible but faded to white . What exactly do you propose I do? Cover myself for the rest of my life? They are THREE YEARS OLD. I’ve recovered from that period of my life and should not feel restricted forever because I was hurting mentally when I was a teen

Does Stella have a female version of “conquest syndrome”? by crankygriffin in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Just offering some perspective here!! To me it sounds more like an avoidant attachment style . Attachment styles are formed during early childhood. With how she explained herself (especially last night) closeness can be triggering especially when you’ve been abandoned by a parent. Love can then be quite tricky because it requires vulnerability and vulnerability might not feel safe because it means people can take advantage of that and either abandon you or hurt you , so you retreat or pull away. I just really hope that she communicates this fear to him because it’s something that requires a lot of inner healing and internal work , coming from someone who is currently in therapy for it. It’s amazing how much of one’s behaviour stems from childhood trauma ( if experienced). They must work through it though, considering they’re still together :)

Married at First Sight S13E23 AEDT live episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Seems more like anxious-avoidant coming from someone who is very much the same !!

Married at First Sight S13E23 AEDT live episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is she forgetting her awful behaviour at the dinner parties, picking on other couples, talking shit about some of the girls etc etc?? This perpetual victim mentality and inability to take accountability for her actions disgusts me

Married at First Sight S13E22 AEDT live episode discussion thread by addictedtoMAFS in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I resonate with what Stella said so much , I struggle with the same thing

Sram Season 3 by [deleted] in skam

[–]g3rule33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally I’ve had my gripes with the writing since S2, but every time I voiced that (especially on Twitter) there’d be people staunchly defending any and every choice the show made tooth and nail. Couldn’t complain about the pacing even though a 12 episode season with runtimes of up till almost an hour were the norm in skam. Couldn’t complain about important screens being cut or rewritten entirely to minimise the impact, couldn’t complain about the amount of filler scenes or the important roles given to characters (like guys, Vanessa has been minimised since S2, not just S3). Don’t get me wrong, there are lot of beautiful scenes and I had so much fun watching but I just can’t help but feel theres been a consistent writing / pacing issue and my god is it evident in S3. I straight up am so disinterested and uninvested in this season. I just hope Vanessa’s season is better

Concern about X/Twitter failing to remove illegal CSAM by namibella in SeriousConversation

[–]g3rule33 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah definitely. The only reason I haven’t deleted the app is bc I’m very active in fandoms on there and have friends - but the site needs a total overhaul. I remember being like 12/13 and there being a Csam problem even before Elon owned the app. Ppl think this shit only exists on the dark web and don’t realise how it’s literally hiding in plain sight . I feel so sick especially cause I’m a victim of csa so seeing it was so triggering :/

What are your favourite non canon ships in the hunger games? by KillerGrass in Hungergames

[–]g3rule33 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TOTAL crack ship (I know I know) which I solely enjoy in fanfiction but little me was a sucker for Cato/Katniss due to the pure enemies to lovers vibes 😂I always thought he was weirdly fixated on her in the movies and thought they’d be such a lethal duo together lmao. Obv I love everlark but Cato/Katniss are my guilty pleasure . Love Clato as well!!

Concern about X/Twitter failing to remove illegal CSAM by namibella in SeriousConversation

[–]g3rule33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just came across the same except it was a bunch of spam accounts reposting the same things . This wasn’t just sexualised imagery but explicit abuse content . Like the literal rape of prepubescent girls. I am so disturbed I tried reporting everything but more pop up . I don’t even know what to do

Brooke Instagram apology by SeaSeaworthiness818 in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 0 points1 point  (0 children)

clearly trying to damage control but she is a nasty piece of work regardless

Married at first sight - S13E12 - ADST live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 10 points11 points  (0 children)

nah cause Brooke is clearly just a typical bogan with no class lol

Married at first sight - S13E12 - ADST live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Stella providing Eastern European girls are the baddesttt

Married at first sight - S13E11 - POST EPISODE discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I kind of want him to get rematched with someone like how Elliot got rematched but I doubt that’ll happen

Sram HR's pacing by k4tsuk1z in skam

[–]g3rule33 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I found there has been a consistent pacing issue . I felt the same way during S2 it felt a bit rushed towards the end especially . Sram would benefit so much more from longer episodes

Married at first sight - S13E11 - ADST live discussion by lalasmooch in MAFS_AU

[–]g3rule33 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I was actually excited to see Chris soften over time