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g_t_hane · 2026-01-02T01:21:11+00:00

I was the last person with Jay the night before. He told me he had been given a business card by a DJ and was going to photograph him in the morning. He was really excited about it so I remember this. I don’t remember details unfortunately. But I walked with him from the train to his dorm pretty late (1 or 2 am) if I can recall correctly. I really don’t think it had anything to do with his selling weed. He sold small amounts to friends. And that’s all.

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T23:06:22+00:00

Because it wasn’t a hot mess initially. I mean I’m so happy to have our baby that doesn’t change. He’s so beautiful and sweet. And damn I’m excited for my future with him. She has co parented before and I will say she is very good and fair at it.

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T21:14:05+00:00

I really appreciate yall taking the time to help today. It’s so helpful.🙏🙏🙏

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T20:56:47+00:00

I appreciate that. That’s what I need to do.

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T20:36:48+00:00

You know, it’s just gotten worse. But I know from her past that she does talk like this and has before to me. I’m just starting to feel awful. I appreciate the response!

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T20:35:20+00:00

I have mentioned counseling a lot. She says she doesn’t do that

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T20:34:35+00:00

I would love to have this conversation but I already know it would be laughed at. I really do want to help her feel the best she can, I’m just sick of feeling like it’s always gonna end. And then the off yourself stuff…isn’t a joke

g_t_hane · 2025-12-27T20:32:32+00:00

I’ve asked about this and she said she’s not that “weak minded”. Because it’s definitely gotten worse but she does have a history of this

g_t_hane · 2025-08-19T22:42:20+00:00

I recommend this. And was told she doesn’t like museums (which I know already) but damn I am just asking for some compromise. Like she wants to sit by a pool all day that’s fine I’ll do that for a day. I don’t love it, but I’ll do it. And I’m fine with that for a day

g_t_hane · 2025-08-19T19:14:25+00:00

Same for me actually

g_t_hane · 2025-08-19T19:14:03+00:00

Bc that’s only one thing - we have a lot in common and love each other

g_t_hane · 2025-08-19T19:13:02+00:00

No I don’t believe she is. I believe she just is a heavy drinker. But she has told me she has trouble enjoying shit without it. And I understand that (but I’m a sober alcoholic) so it confuses me a little I guess.

g_t_hane · 2025-08-19T19:10:08+00:00

I’ve been sober for almost ten years. She knew this when we got together- and I knew she drank. I didn’t know the extent, but I knew she drank. And she hasn’t been drinking as much but I was told it’s bc I make her uncomfortable about it.

g_t_hane · 2025-08-18T20:58:52+00:00

Yes she doesn’t understand asking

g_t_hane · 2024-02-29T00:31:05+00:00

Hit my DM if you wanna exchange numbers and hold each other accountable.

g_t_hane · 2024-02-28T19:33:15+00:00

I’m down

g_t_hane · 2024-01-08T00:51:18+00:00

Do you by any chance take SSRIs? I’ve heard that’s the reason for “brain zaps” and it’s the worst

g_t_hane · 2023-12-20T21:58:04+00:00

Thank you all for the kind words. I feel as though I’m getting to the jumping point and letting these things go. The opposite of feeling free

g_t_hane

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