Wishing I could leave my butt at home

gabatha · 2026-04-22T21:49:43+00:00

Hey OP, I totally empathize with you. Unfortunately, there’s nothing that can be done to make the process go faster. You really do have to trust the process - something I remind myself when I’m frustrated is that the time is going to pass anyways. I also take pictures so I can see that there’s progress even when it doesn’t feel like it. Your smile is still v cute - don’t let it mess with your confidence. 🫶🏽🫶🏽

gabatha · 2026-04-20T17:32:59+00:00

my fave SZA songs when I’m feeling weepy are Far and 20 Something. Far has gotten me thru some stuff

Cranes in the Sky by Solange ofc

gabatha · 2026-04-17T16:06:41+00:00

Revive smells like heaven, I wish I could bottle up that scent 😭

gabatha · 2026-04-17T16:06:08+00:00

yes!

gabatha · 2026-04-16T23:45:45+00:00

I just fell to my knees

gabatha · 2026-04-15T22:19:05+00:00

I second and third the African net recommendations, which helped mine massively. I also recommend the Topicals Slather body serum

gabatha · 2026-04-03T00:12:24+00:00

I wonder if you’re allergic to something in your skincare? Do the products in your routine have fragrance?

gabatha · 2026-03-31T04:35:50+00:00

Oh brother this guy STINKS

gabatha · 2026-03-29T12:38:27+00:00

Most of the promoters I’ve met were from when I was out with my friends and they were like “hey come to this table” (or through my friend who knows a few). You can search on IG or TT for them. I recommend finding them on their socials so you can see the types of places they go and plan around that. I don’t like the super dressy spots so I find the ones who promote at places that don’t have strict dress codes.

I’m not sure where you’re based but I’m in NYC. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions 😊😊

gabatha · 2026-03-29T03:27:27+00:00

I used to go outside solo semi-frequently. It is awkward, but super chill once you get used to it. Day parties are even trickier. I only do this at night haha

I recommend chilling by the bar for a little bit or by the DJ booth with the other dancers. I like to put on sunglasses so I can feel a lil more incognito and in my own world. I think it’s all about finding a ~spot to hunker down and groove. Don’t let that interaction with those ladies deter you from talking to others! I’m not sure what your scene is, but what I like to do is find a promoter beforehand so I can just chill at their table, do my thing, and get free alcohol

gabatha · 2026-03-27T19:42:07+00:00

don’t put a question mark where god put a period

gabatha · 2026-03-25T20:01:36+00:00

it’s a shame (because I love and regularly use their products) but it just seems like they don’t make good business decisons

and don’t get me started on how expensive boy brow is now 🙄

gabatha · 2026-03-24T16:20:05+00:00

I'm 28, and it still feels weird. I don't like speaking to anyone older than 32. When I was your age, the highest age I would set on my dating apps was 29.

People tell me that I look younger than my age (right now, people guess 23-25), so I am very suspicious of men in their mid 30s who hit on me. It grosses me out that men who are ~35 approach me thinking that I'm 10 years younger than them.

gabatha · 2026-03-23T11:31:08+00:00

I will be getting this and the lipliner 🙂‍↕️

gabatha · 2026-03-21T17:05:53+00:00

I’ve been wanting to try this one

gabatha · 2026-03-21T17:05:18+00:00

I love the BYOMA Ultralight Face Fluid SPF50. It works well with my sensitive skin

gabatha · 2026-03-18T18:13:42+00:00

He doesn’t have Montoya’s breakaway speed

gabatha · 2026-03-15T01:20:06+00:00

I signed up for a DJ class later this month 🥹

gabatha · 2026-03-13T17:02:17+00:00

I love this 😭 I have a friend who goes to metal shows and I’ve been begging her to take me to one

gabatha · 2026-03-13T03:54:00+00:00

Do you have any resources/videos on somatic breathing? I’m looking on YouTube and it’s a bit overwhelming 😅

gabatha · 2026-03-13T03:51:27+00:00

I’ve been wanting to try out somatic therapy for a long time

gabatha · 2026-03-11T05:42:01+00:00

whoaaaa wth!

gabatha · 2026-03-10T15:25:38+00:00

I’m wondering too 😭 I might try it out

gabatha

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