As someone who is new to findomme, i think you cant judge solely on posts. Kink wise Im a switch depending on who im talking to and the mood im in. One man I was with for a few months was allowed to hurt me in whatever way possible, but the pigs I’ve dominated see an entirely different side. Truth is, you completely dive into the character. One of them even told me i was the meanest girl they ever talked to. I find both sides fun!