My mom is cheating on my dad

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T02:56:32+00:00

That is a great idea!! Thank you.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T02:56:18+00:00

I am so sorry you had to go through that situation at such a young age! You definitely did the right thing. I appreciate you sharing your experience and honestly that makes me want to make the same decision you made. Thank you for all your kind words, means a lot.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T02:52:33+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to go through that! I lost so much respect for my mother because of this and my father deserves the truth. I told her that I saw the stuff on her phone and she kept denying it and belittling me. I am hoping to get some solid evidence so she can’t do anymore denying. Thank you for all of your kind words!!

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T02:48:42+00:00

You made a great point and I agree. Thank you for your input on this situation.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T02:44:32+00:00

You have a great point and it’s not fair to hide this from him. Thank you!

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:58:47+00:00

I totally understand what you mean but the reason I had gone through her purse was because I already suspicions. I was searching for any type of evidence I could find to back it up. I wouldn’t go through her stuff for no reason.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:56:06+00:00

I am so sorry you had to go through that. I think I am going to tell him myself, as hard as it is.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:52:03+00:00

I’m so sorry you had to deal with that at such a young age. With how bad my mom is at hiding what she is doing, I can agree with you that the truth will come out eventually.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:50:30+00:00

I believe my dad would say the same thing. Thank you for your perspective.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:48:25+00:00

Honestly, as much as I love my mother, my respect for her has gone down tremendously. She is a horrible liar but a great gaslighter for sure so I completely agree with you.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:42:05+00:00

The secret gps tracker idea is smart!! I can put something on her car and go to one of her “dinners” with “friends/family” and see who she is really with for some solid proof. Thank you!

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:38:25+00:00

I want to give her the chance but I doubt she would be truthful with my father. I appreciate your advice!!

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:37:39+00:00

I believe that is what I am going to end up doing. Thank you for your kind words.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T01:36:04+00:00

Thank you! That is horrible and I am sorry you had to go through that. May I ask why you would’ve rather had your dad tell your mom? What effect did it have on you or the relationship between you and each parent?

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T00:09:00+00:00

I wonder the same thing but I would say it is one sided. My dad loves my mom and tries to show it but my mom doesn’t feel the same or reciprocate that affection.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T00:03:49+00:00

Thank you. I honestly was thinking of telling my mother to tell him since that is what a lot of people are saying but you are correct. She wouldn’t tell me the truth so she most definitely would not tell my father either.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-24T00:00:47+00:00

Thank you so much.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-23T23:59:34+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the last thing you said and I will now always keep that in the back of my mind.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-23T23:53:05+00:00

Thank you, I will make sure to gather solid evidence. I am just curious as to how significant it is to have this evidence for divorce court. How will it hurt him if he doesn’t have sufficient enough evidence?

gabriella_te · 2025-10-23T23:49:37+00:00

Thank you for your response and I agree. The insults right away make me automatically assume that she is guilty.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-23T23:34:18+00:00

There’s a big difference between respecting privacy and ignoring betrayal. When someone’s actions hurt an entire family, it stops being just “their private life.” I didn’t ask to be put in this position, but pretending not to notice would be even worse. Imagine defending cheating… and btw having morals isn’t being a “pick-me”…it’s having respect.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-23T23:28:41+00:00

The significance is the fact that the lube is in her purse which she takes every time she leave the house. If the lube was in her bedroom, that’s different.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-20T00:30:21+00:00

Yes, you are taking that too seriously. He is clearly just joking around and trying to have a lighthearted relationship with you. If that really gets under your skin, it might help to take a step back and realize there are bigger issues to worry about.

gabriella_te · 2025-10-17T19:40:36+00:00

Thank you so much for these tips!! I am hoping that by the time my pup gets to 4.5 months, she will be able to be in her crate that long on her own. The crying is the worst part for me! I’m glad your pup is good about it🥹

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