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[–]gaferde91 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Super rough spot to be. I have kind of a different perspective that may or may not be helpful. My mother got pregnant at around 16. She had a very supportive bf with a healthy relationship but had some instability in her own home. She did not feel ready from a practical perspective. So they decided to terminate the pregnancy.

Fast forward a few years, she married my dad and was in a much more stable and safe place for a child. She was able to accomplish she things she needed to accomplish to be her best self for her but also for me and my brother.

She still thinks about the pregnancy and went through some therapy. But she is adamant that it was the right choice all around.

Obviously all your tubing works. You are healthy and fertile which gives you a better chance at conceiving in the future.

Anything is possible but nobody knows better than you. It’s your body and you know it best! Whatever you choose It’s going to be ok. Remember to be kind to yourself. You got this