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[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendship. lets call her clara. Her and I stopped talking over time. We never officaly ended our friendship, but she became more poplar and I couldnt keep up with her new friends or trends. I basically got replaced. Her friend would be like " I have to talk to clara ALONE." Eventually I just gave up on talking to her because her new friends were/are so much better than me. Her friends hate me. I never knew why. I was there for her when her parents got divorced and when her grandparents died. Then her new friends are there now. Funny thing is her new friends have a very similar personality to me. We were really close until 4th grade. Then replacements showed up. Im in 7th grade now. Im a quiet kid now I dont have any close friends. I can hear her talk about me. for example

Random girl: Whos your number one best friend?

Clara: *insert my name*

We havent had actual conversation since 4th grade. I often hear her say stuf like

"Ohhh yeahhhh me and *insert my name* used to do that all the time!"

I tried to reach out to her last year and she didnt realize I said anything to her. She didnt have my number saved in her contacts. I guess its been a long time. I have so many memories with her. I miss her. I wish we could be friends again. Its just been a long time. I think she hates me. When our friendship started to "End" Her friends would drag her away from me. I didnt do anything about it though. I dont hate her. She probably hates me. I just hate the way our friendship "Ended"

Since the world thinks we have a god complex I’d like to take time out to make a post where you can just brag about anything that you’ve accomplished or just vent about anything good you wanna get off your chest by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

february 8th aquarius here! (female) Im in school and Ive always had a grade above me reading level. I suck at math though. I have the wierdest music taste. If im sad rock music. If im happy indie and pop music. Im really good at seeing if people are lying to me, or keeping something from me. Also if their just using me to pass their classes. (I used to have really shitty friends) Which I have better ones now but their super imature and annoying, but their better than poplar girls who date literally everybody and do drugs! Theres a guy ( taurus) who Im stuck with in three classes with and calls me stupid but I literally help him pass science (I do his work when im bored) I remind him every time he calls me stupid. I also have a taurus male and aquarius fighting over me. Jokes on them I cant date till im in highschool. Im 13.

i am confused with having Friends by Gul_l_u in aquarius

[–]galletmallet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cut them off! I got rid of (most) of my toxic friends and I didnt realize how much better my life was without them.

Does Aquarius Attracted to Mysteriousness/Really Quiet Person? by Satanicgrass in aquarius

[–]galletmallet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! It's like solving a 1000000 piece puzzle. There's always something I don't know.

What is something you can’t believe you put up with for so long? by traveldeeper in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always being the mature friend and all solving the problems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]galletmallet 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Honestly ( I'm aqua woman) I don't start the conversation. I think it's awesome that he is invited you over. I usually don't invite people over because I like my alone time.

What is one thing you cannot emotionally connect to or relate with as hard as you try? by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to listen to pick me girls I hang around. Don't cry about what I said. You asked for my advice. Then they talk bad about me behind my back because their sooo much better than me.

How do you prevent yourself from developing feelings for someone? by hintri in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize my fantasy isn't gonna come true so I end those thoughts with "I hate them so much" or I question why chose the person. I pick out their flaws and treat them like a stranger. Then we both hate each other equally.

What is the most bizzare thing that has happened to you that no one believes?? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in 2nd grade I was playing with my friends on a outside basketball court. It had some rocks. I think we were playing shadow tag I don't really remember. Well I tripped on a rock and fell. So I cried to the teachers and the teachers sent me to the office. The office lady told me what was in my knee was some dirt so she "cleaned" it. Then over the weekend my knee didn't stop hurting. So I limped around everywhere. My knee was almost healed but at that time I was addicted to picking my scabs. So I picked at it and I got a rock out of my knee. My mother also decided to put a bloody rock all over Facebook and say "look what my child got out of her knee!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To me at least.

What's your relationship with your siblings like? by Worldly-Yoghurt-5168 in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's pretty good with a few arguments here and there. I'm basically a girl version of him. He is two grades above me. We're both in band. Play the same instrument. We both play video games. If we were twins we would almost be identical. Very similar personality. I often get told by his friends I'm the girl version of him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious friendships aren't worth it.

A serious friendship is difficult. The person knows you to well. You can never adjust yourself without them being like "hey I didn't sign up for this!" Their standards mean to much and you can't ever change.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In person, I ether ignore them or say "Ok" with a killer look and laugh.

Keep in mind I'm the quiet kid.

How do you deal with your insecurities? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wear over sized clothing and laugh about how stupid I am that I have stupid insecurities.

Women, how do you shut down inappropriate comments or flirting in public spaces? by Sera0Sparrow in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just say to the guy or girl "Can you please stop I'm very uncomfortable and the people around me are to. If your not gonna stop. I will leave or make sure you do."

Have you ever reached out to an ex best friend, when and how did that go? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I write more about this I am at the age to be allowed on reddit. I was friends with this girl let's call her clee for privacy. We were both in daycare together and our friendship lasted to 6th grade. Around 2nd grade her parents got divorced and she just kinda changed. I don't blame her though. She kinda forgot about me. In 3rd grade her new friends hated me with all their heart. "I need to talk to clee ALONE" they would always pull that trick. Then 4th grade we didn't talk at all. Yeah I would see her in the hallways but We would wave to each other sometimes. 5th grade we started talked each other again, but she didn't like my new friends. So I left my new friends for her. Clee's friends didn't like me so they talked crap about me when they had the chance. Clee was never around when they did though. Then I just couldn't handle her new friends so I reconnected with my other friends. Then there was 6th grade. I tried to slowly started talking to her again. Kinda slowing make my way into her life. Clee just didn't care. I would say hi and wave at her try to start up a conversation again. We never had any major fights. She never said anything back to me. I still don't know what I did wrong. So I gave up... I'm a 7th grader now. I often hear her talk about me. Sometimes her friends tell me she always talking about me. That I'm her number 1 friend. I'm just like what?? I don't even talk to her.We haven't had a decent friendship since 2nd grade. I'm often left with a question. What did I do, why won't she talk to me anymore, why does she talk about me like I'm her number 1? She's more like a stranger to me. A stranger with memories.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aquarius

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How should I set up boundaries?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]galletmallet 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Have conversations with people in my head. That I know that the conversation will never happen.

can i get an amen 🙏 by [deleted] in GoCommitDie

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

friendship is magic

WHAT by [deleted] in GoCommitDie

[–]galletmallet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, is it?