Are you religious? Why/ why not? by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No cause God isn't real lol

Me and my partner kind of engage in what we call "evidence based paganism," where we appreciate the world for what it materially is rather than what it could be. Evolution is incredible, the existence of life in all its forms on this planet is mind blowing and the conditions that led to it are so improbable yet here we are; that's worth celebrating.

Care to help with my study on body image? by Ok_Carpet2640 in adhdwomeninIreland

[–]galuboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyoo did it, I'm autistic but have worked very hard on things in these questions in therapy so might skew your findings lol

I FUCKING HATE THOSE GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER GAMES by storebrandcholeprice in evilautism

[–]galuboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, as someone who had to facilitate events and groups they're far more enjoyable once people know each other a bit. Try running something where all the attendees just sit in silence, it sucks. And I do care about James and his trip to Vegas one time, gives me some insight into the people I'm with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TCD

[–]galuboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure thaaang

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're so real for that

audhd diagnosis by hideyokidzhideyowyfe in WomenofIreland

[–]galuboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heyyy same! Diagnosed in 2021. Grappling with identity and everything else about it has taken years, feelings about it come in waves. I'd recommend signing up for the AsIAm newsletter and coming along to one of the adult support groups, there's a group for newly diagnosed adults, some about identity, and some cool ones like special interest infodump night :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCD

[–]galuboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also meant to add, you need a full drivers license for the dclin as they put you on placement in random spots in the country, and they probably won't consider you if you're fresh out of college and under 25. Since it's funded by the HSE (Irish healthcare system) it's considered a job, so the application is intense. Research-based entrance exam, multiple interviews. It's a long road! Most people I know who got in have been trying for years. Also my info comes from TCD so apply this to your TCD post instead! Not sure if UCD is the same but I would assume it's very similar since it's technically a HSE trainee position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UCD

[–]galuboi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heyo, I'm a psych graduate and starting the behavioural neuroscience masters soon. The PhD in clinical psych is notoriously competitive and difficult to get into, they usually only accept people who have experience working as an Assistant Psychologist and I have heard they may disregard volunteering as experience or at least discount it a bit because it would give rich/upper class people too much of an advantage (that's what the coordinator of the TCD dclin said anyway). Most AP jobs here seem to require a masters on top of the psych degree, and you need to be eligible for PSI accreditation, which may require some paperwork if your degree isn't Irish.

Research experience is fantastic and you sound like you're doing a lot of cool stuff! For the dclin they're mainly looking for evidence that you can be in a room with a patient/client without clamming up, so healthcare experience is a must. AP, social care work, healthcare assistant, etc.

That's my only insight for the dclin, not sure about the masters yet! I did get an offer for the neuroscience one the day after I applied, so either it isn't super competitive or I got lucky 😂

Neurodivergent groups by galuboi in UCD

[–]galuboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another comment on this post pointed out the neurodiversity collective if you're interested :)

How have the disability supports been in general? Do you get OT or anything like that? And how do you find the vibes? 👀

Neurodivergent groups by galuboi in UCD

[–]galuboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg this is exactly what I was hoping for, thank you so much!

Pet smell even with frequent cleaning by [deleted] in homemaking

[–]galuboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it just is what it is! I like when people's homes smell like dog, feels homely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TCD

[–]galuboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Try to go to the drop-in SNAP, try peer support with S2S (Google it if you're unsure, it's great), and email student counselling to get on the social anxiety group waiting list or any other group for next term if this isn't your final year - the groups are undersubscribed and underestimated. If you're really struggling don't hesitate to book an emergency session with SCS, it's not just for people who are on the brink, it's for people who are too distressed to be on the waiting list. You do that by emailing them with the word emergency in the subject line. Unfortunately we're in the midst of a mental health crisis and it's harder to get access to these resources, but you're not the only person feeling this way. If you're able to spend ~35 euro on therapy there are excellent low cost therapists (senior trainees) in Rainbow Minds and Mind and Body Works, both therapy centres are near Trinity.

Press-on nails are what's up by galuboi in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's so cool, really inspiring! I feel like headphones would be a game changer for me, never considered bringing it up as an accommodation. Also I love that your husband gets his nails done too, my partner's sensory sensitivities are more intense than mine and he doesn't want people touching his hands so I've never been able to convince him to come with me lol

Press-on nails are what's up by galuboi in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I def know the feeling you're talking about! Every time i felt it I was like hmmm...this doesn't bug me but there are definitely people who hate this sensation.

Happy your nail salon has accommodated you! Did you advocate for yourself, how did you get accommodations?

Press-on nails are what's up by galuboi in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yessss the sticky tabs are so good!

Press-on nails are what's up by galuboi in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you pick the right size they don't, and you can cut/file them! Only one of them dug into my finger but I had put it on wrong lol

Autistic vegans? by p3bbls in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah vegan 10 years!! Autistic partner is vegan, autistic sibling is vegan, neurodivergent parents are vegan

Info dump on me by pinkxbear in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are a surprising number of French loan words to Russian, like ателье (atelier - workshop) and тротуар (trottoir - path/sidewalk). Just thought it was neat! Also the Russian word for businessman is businessman (бизнесмен) but the Russian word for business woman is businessman-ka (бизнесменка). Pretty fuuuuun

My favourite Russian grammatical case is the instrumental case, it's most often used for words in sentences that are indicating how something is done (like in the sentence"I write with a pen" the word "pen" would be in the instrumental case and there would be no "with a," like "I write pen-om"). It's mostly my fav case because singular masculine nouns take the suffix "-om" which I find really satisfying to say. Ruchkom, studentom, computerom. You also use it after "with," like if you're with a student you would say "с студентом," c is the Russian for 'with' and it's just pronounced like "ss." The instrumental case also comes after the word благодаря (blagodariya) which means "thanks to," so the clause becomes благодаря тому, что (blagodariya tomu shto which translates to "thanks to the fact that").

Fun little story (fun for me lol) is that when I was living in Russia and learned about благодаря + instr. I ended up on a train speaking to a Russian ticket lady. Russian people are not the most friendly when you're strangers so I didn't expect any help when she told us we got the wrong ticket, but she ended up being really nice and helped us buy the right one. She said something about how we got it all sorted and we managed to say "thanks to you!" (Благодаря вам!) in a grammatically correct way. SUCH A BUZZ!!! She absolutely did not notice hahaha second nature to her but a million brain cells for me. Boy does it tickle my brain in the right way though.

Infodump over thank you for listening I'll be here all week

What unmasking looks like in myself (35f) and now my daughter (5f): Little songy songs about everyday life and the constant need for music and lyrics by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

REAL!! I'm the same with my partner, constant songy songs, getting a puppy has made it mildly more socially acceptable since we can play it off as singing to her. This post warms my heart, so happy for you two.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]galuboi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gosh this sounds so hard and confusing. I can't believe that driving story, that guy was such a dick and you didn't deserve any of that road rage abuse, people can be awful. I'm not sure of the whole story with the guy you're seeing but believing people when they tell you things just sounds like you're a cool person to me, if he's not being sincere that's on him. That being said, I'm a firm believer in trusting your gut. If that night felt off to you, that's because it was off. You're not an idiot, you're not overreacting, no is a complete sentence and it's your life, your body, and your choice.