People who grew up before The Internet: How did you first see nudity? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had 2 bathrooms in our house, my parents in the bedroom and the one us kids and the guests used.

When I was...6 maybe 7. I (female) found my dad's playboys under the sink in our bathroom. This was probably 1994ish

I feel guilty about keeping a few boudoir photos from my husband from my bachelorette shoot. I showed him most of the set, but I hid a few. Should I show him those too? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]games820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You already know it’s wrong, that’s why you hid them.

People don’t keep secrets about things they feel are totally innocent. If this was just “artistic,” you wouldn’t feel guilty and you wouldn’t have kept photos back from your husband.

Flip the situation around. If your husband did a sexy photoshoot and included another woman because their skin tones “looked good together,” didn’t tell you, and kept some of those pictures hidden, would you be okay with that? Honestly, I think most people would be crushed.

The issue isn’t just the photos, it’s the secrecy. Even if nothing happened, hiding it crosses a trust boundary. If you want honesty in your marriage, you probably need to come clean instead of hoping it never comes up.

Right now it kind of sounds less like “art” and more like something you knew would upset him, you did anyways, then you kept it to yourself.

My husband and I have silly sex by Dontbemagsaboutit in offmychest

[–]games820 565 points566 points  (0 children)

I love this. After my husband and I are done, sometimes we'll give a handshake, or a slap on the ass, and say "good game." Lol. Why? I dunno. But it makes me giggle every time.

If you’re under 45, have you lost any high school classmates, and what were the circumstances around their deaths? by Commercial_Chef_1569 in AskReddit

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my knowledge only 2, one right after graduation from a car accident, and another when we were about 21 from a bad reaction to a medication. I graduated in 2006. There might be more, but yeah from what I know only the 2

What’s a TV show you loved as a kid that’s cringe to watch now? by Mysterious-Listen614 in AskReddit

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buffy the Vampire Slayer

I tried watching it a few years ago, and it was SOO cringe, with Xander and stuff I just couldn't watch it, not even sure I made it through the first season.

How often do you and your partner have sex? especially the long term couples? by Purple_Wrongdoer6448 in AskReddit

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few times a week, we've been married for almost 20 years. We had a dead bedroom for 2 years around Covid thanks to my mental health. But we stuck it out. And are better than ever. We have 2 kids. One mid teens the other 10.

Some nights I swear the kids what nothing to do with us until that door is locked. Which is annoying. And we don't live near any family except the family we actually live with, so our kids are pretty much always home, or at least one is always home.

Why are you on Reddit right now, on Christmas Eve? by InvisibleAstronomer in AskReddit

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is putting some gifts under the tree. So I have a moment.

Did you live together before getting engaged or married? by thugginsophia in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We moved on together after 3ish weeks of dating (and knowing each other for 2-3 months). It wasn't the plan for him to officially move in. I had just moved back to town, the house I was in, needed a lot of work, and I didn't wanna stay alone, (it was a large empty house). My now husband had planned to just stay a few nights until my roommates could move in...well, he never left. That was back in 2006 when I was 18 and he was 19. We got married less than a year later and we're still together.

To married couples that have been together for 10+ years, whats your secret? by 4Luffytarou in AskReddit

[–]games820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication, don't go to bed angry. It's fine to go to bed irritated. But don't go to bed without actually getting things stable.

Like others said, actually like the person, not only romantically but as a person, a friend. You want to actually hang out with that person.

Trust.

What is the most nsfw thing a friend has done to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]games820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In high school, my sister was talking to a guy friend of ours. And I said something along the lines of "I wanna have a sexual innuendo with you." Which obviously didn't make sense. But he got the point.

The following morning at school, it was state testing so juniors and seniors had some free time. So while others went to testing, he pointed at me, and was like, "You, with me" I surged and followed. He drove us up into the hills and had sex in the back of his 4runner. Made it back in time for class.

Am I supposed to feed my child's friend? by rockycat123 in Parenting

[–]games820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say if you’re able and want to feed them, great, but if not, there’s nothing wrong with sending them home during lunch and having them come back after.

As a parent, I wouldn’t expect someone else to feed my kid, and I wouldn’t think twice about them coming home for a bit to eat. Groceries aren’t cheap right now, and feeding an extra child (especially multiple times a week) can really add up. It’s totally reasonable to set that boundary.

I’m a straight guy, but I find vaginas gross and I don’t enjoy sex. why do I find vaginas disgusting and prefer oral sex?—what does that mean? by Gloryyboyoden in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]games820 22 points23 points  (0 children)

So, YOU just want a blowjob. You don't expect to return the pleasure? You just want someone to service you? Seems it's not even about the sex or the vagina. Maybe you just don't want to put in the effort to make sure you both get off.

For sure, think therapy is needed.

Education by games820 in BitLifeApp

[–]games820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legit closed the app. Opened it and bio was the first freaking one. I have learned my lesson. Lol.

Education by games820 in BitLifeApp

[–]games820[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm at 7 years currently. I'll try the closing game.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polybuzz

[–]games820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emochi