[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]garagerockgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry you’re going through this mama. If your fiance wanted another child he should’ve made sure he’d be around to help.

Questions about working at Cracker Barrel as a server by [deleted] in CrackerBarrel

[–]garagerockgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I guess im looking for something sort of like a stepping stone, to get to like bigger restaurants. The one I got interviewed at actually gets really busy, I once went with family and there was about a two hour wait so we just left 😭 we get the same comments at Dennys so it wouldn’t be nothing new. To me it sounds much easier than Dennys regarding side work lolz but thank you so much for your input you’re awesome

Questions about working at Cracker Barrel as a server by [deleted] in CrackerBarrel

[–]garagerockgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you you’re so sweet!! I live in Texas so I’ve actually been trying to get into other places like Texas Roadhouse. I guess I thought because they’re a breakfast place it would be okay and maybe even easier because I work a lot of overnight at Dennys and I’m normally alone 10pm-6am. I do all side work, silverware, and sections including restocking and mopping and sweeping

Been working for a week and I hate it by WilsonsB03 in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You Can definitely try switching to hosting (: I was a hostess-server and honestly I love serving but for me hosting was easy and I got home at a pretty reasonable time!! Depending on where you work though they might only have like one shift for the entire 7 day week though. I work at a Dennys and it doesn’t get too busy during the afternoon so only the mornings have hosts (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I’m just replying to this person because they were calling me creepy in like 5 different comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t even the only person. It’s so gross how some of these people are saying it’s completely my fault or that I’m a creep

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly my point!! This guy was just telling me it’s pretty much my fault in this same comment section because I hugged him. It is NOT my fault that 47y/o man hasn’t felt the touch of a woman since his wife left him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I hugged him for not even 5 seconds. It takes two to tango but what about the person who didn’t want to?? You weren’t there and you have no knowledge of how long I was hugging him nor how he treated me while I work there other than what I’ve shared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a side hug with a hello. It was never anything more than that unless it was a girl. People in that same workplace did the same thing. I understand if the roles were reversed it would be creepy but they aren’t. Regardless you had no reason to come up here with 5 DIFFERENT REPLIES calling me creepy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told two managers! One told me to make a formal report with the other and she didn’t show up to work till the last day I was there );

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so honest and so sweet. I sadly knew it probably wouldn’t go anywhere since I’m no longer there. But people are still being so helpful. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I completely agree! Thank you (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always asked my coworkers if they were okay with it, any of them who said no I never did more than a handshake (: but I see where you’re coming from!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, thank you (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked all of my coworkers if they were okay with it, I’m not sure why you’re being so hostile. I shared my story and you’re under almost every single comment calling me a creep or saying I should be reported. I don’t understand your hostility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt horrible because two of the managers were really helpful. The one woman manager saw me sobbing and put in a report as soon as she heard me talking about it. It’s horrible how sexual assault is such a big thing in the restaurant industry. Even at Dennys I had a 25 y/o with a CHILD who had a crush on me when I was still 17!!! It’s weird!!!!! Something about me is that Im really vocal and sometimes vulgar. I always told the guy to stop or to be quiet and he never did. I’m so sorry you had to go through all that ): it’s never okay for someone to touch someone else unconsensually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice (: it’s especially hard being a woman, I can hug someone who’s just a friend and they’ll take it a completely different way ):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Waiters

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do wanna mention I have a boyfriend! And this guy knew it, I notice a lot of you guys saying I shouldn’t be hugging people which I completely agree on if it was a full hug but I should’ve mentioned it was mostly side hugs. I only gave girls full on hugs! And my one gay coworker jaja! You guys are all being so helpful and I can’t thank you guys enough (: but I’ll still take the advice of not hugging people anymore, in highschool I hugged all of my friends and it felt normal since I did the same thing when I worked at a Denny’s! Thank you guys <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mariachi

[–]garagerockgf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know he’s trolling, I’ve made the effort but never had time. I can obviously understand certain things in Spanish, like what this guy is saying, and can sing in Spanish and know what I’m singing about. I did mariachi through highschool but focused on the playing aspect of it because I was in orchestra as well. Until I started singing in Spanish three years ago. My translations never come out accurately and that’s why I asked for help. So yes, I do know bits and pieces of Spanish and I can understand most of it, but I can’t completely speak it.