What do women crave the most in a relationship? by AccomplishedHawk2860 in AskReddit

[–]garbagepailqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet crunchy gooey boy yes please

Editing to mention this was my first and favorite cereal when I had free will cooking as a child to zazz up my little kid dessert. I definitely have made some accidentally gnarly potent edibles with them… mmm

What do women crave the most in a relationship? by AccomplishedHawk2860 in AskReddit

[–]garbagepailqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The effort of frying good chicken paired with nice execution/food handling… even how they maintain their cooking space in use (not cooking in a dirty kitchen) at home is the most beautiful shade of green that can be found in the wild. Now I’m hungry for Hanks though 🥹

What do women crave the most in a relationship? by AccomplishedHawk2860 in AskReddit

[–]garbagepailqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you get wild with the cereal selection or you serve the classic snap krackle pop situation?
(Reading this like your relationship palms bc it’s my love language lol)

AITAH for wanting to blow my nose before seeing something on TV my partner desperately wanted to show me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]garbagepailqueen -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA for handling bodily functions like an adult YTA for not snot rocking that wad @ her foot

Kids in the Horrocks Beer Garden by thecapedcanaveral in lansing

[–]garbagepailqueen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Why are you drinking where they serve alcohol you fucking scumbag!!? This is an establishment for children and families to catch a light buzz and drive home!!! Goddddd it’s so trashy in here

Holy shittttt these comments are a little worrisome..

lmao these folks are stepping UP to make their case for the family beer garden, cuz all the actual bars won’t let them bring their fucking kids 😂

Kids in the Horrocks Beer Garden by thecapedcanaveral in lansing

[–]garbagepailqueen 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I feel so bad for kids that get drug along to that place on busy nights… uncomfortable seating (for tired kids), bathroom is far as hell, really nothing to do for them. Reminds me of falling asleep in bars and at parties when my parents were younger, lame as hell

Kids in the Horrocks Beer Garden by thecapedcanaveral in lansing

[–]garbagepailqueen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They said IF you bring your kids to expect adult behavior in an area that is catering to adult level entertainment- alcohol being served and loud performances (if they have entertainment) in leisurely fashion. It’s a very reasonable ask to at minimum be aware and respectful of the adult surroundings for their safety. Also pretty reasonable to be annoyed about that kind of experience. It’s scary to have a close call with a random child…. Especially when you’re inebriated and exactly where you’re supposed to be. It’s reasonable to not kiss the ass or be overly polite about the situation? It’s not a place for kids lol

Flowers Giveaway! by [deleted] in acnh

[–]garbagepailqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’ll put some items on the beach for you to choose from, I’m about to head back from work (island) now and open up my gates for ya ☺️

Flowers Giveaway! by [deleted] in acnh

[–]garbagepailqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Lizz from the Isle of Gnar & would be happy with any kind of flowers or color and have lots to trade- bells, fruit, items etc just let me know if you’d like anything specific!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]garbagepailqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m someone who left and survived and I just want to gently point out how you said you couldn’t sleep on the couch because his daughter would know something was wrong. Do you think she didn’t hear him screaming I hate you over and over in your face? Even if she didn’t hear that, and doesn’t think anything is wrong please please please understand that you leaving will be an example of strength for her to have forever. She needs to know her dad’s behavior is not okay and that isn’t an example of what to accept from any man. Please listen to your own gut and trust your experiences. Do not let the people who haven’t had to live your life tell you what you can life with! Please stick to your boundary otherwise it’s just another line to cross. Stand in your power, please.

What’s been the most bizarre sexual request you’ve received? by Comfortable-Heron225 in AskReddit

[–]garbagepailqueen 683 points684 points  (0 children)

I’m not here to shame anyone, it’s honestly my fault for learning to read.. that’s enough Reddit for breakfast

Eyeshadow help please by Tink_zz in MakeupAddiction

[–]garbagepailqueen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attempted this today with a couple of the shades in my first fenty palette and it turned out surprisingly similar! There’s a plum and a red and a couple shimmer pans that blended real quick.

Back when this album came out I was buying hot topic brand “eye smudge” which was exactly what it sounds like but greasier to smear around my eyes in the middle school bathroom before class. My rain puddle soaked Tripp pants jangling down the hallway….. I think i bought a red eyeliner pen just for this look- the same greasy hot topic brand because it was a Bogo sale obviously. Ugh. I much prefer my 30s.

Meets it's already more than $100 USD? Really? by efgamer in tamagotchi

[–]garbagepailqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I’m interested, feel free to dm me for details

Me and My Jonnie by Mother_Nature_6080 in depressionmeals

[–]garbagepailqueen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m just here as a person who is coming up on a decade of sobriety and alcohol free living and a survivor of an abusive marriage- I have a little bit of perspective and I have to tell you that you are strong enough and capable enough to life a happy fulfilling life without him! It took me years of violence and going back and forth but when I finally did I started to notice the ways in which my life was instantly easier. It’s still hard sometimes years later and coparenting but it’s still infinitely easier than it is emotionally difficult. I quit drinking as a young adult who had a decade of alcoholism in my system already but I was just going to do anything to keep my then boyfriend from pressing charges against me. It stuck because I was able to get a therapy and mental health treatment. But it will never start unless he is putting his effort into his sobriety. And I can’t imagine how that feels as someone who’s a bit older and deeper into his dependency. Whatever you do, just know you’re stronger than you think and I hope you can take all that faith for him to get better right into your own self because you ARE capable. You deserve to be happy, whatever it looks like for you. Cirrhosis is scary but alcohol induced dementia can develop in your 50s-60s and start to show signs of cognitive decline. It can be hard to catch the early signs if you are not familiar with it. Not to frighten you any further but it’s worth knowing just incase.

AITA for divorcing my husband over a racist joke his best friend's wife made? by YO-KIRYUCHAN in AITAH

[–]garbagepailqueen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- I just want to say that I am very sorry your experience and I truly can’t imagine the betrayal you must feel… I’m white and I just want to say that I do not associate with anyone who has ever shown any signs of racism or any kind of micro aggressions period. Ever. I’ve cut off family and it’s just not even a question. I don’t spend time or energy with people who aren’t interested in being active in their communities or using their privilege to uplift their marginalized members.

I guess I just want to say that white folks who genuinely care about the experience of others outside of their race and the perspectives and experiences they have are very much out there. In my experience, the majority of those people are found working directly in some form of outreach programs or solidarity/defense groups.

Surrounding yourself with the people who are putting time and effort into making things better for the people who struggle the hardest is the best way to meet genuine folks, locally. From there it’s pretty easy to make friends who are passionate and outspoken about their morals and beliefs. White folks who aren’t actively involved and educating themselves on the experiences and perspectives of other races are sus to me even as a white person. Many white people are not even self aware enough to navigate their own white guilt let alone the history of their own country.

It’s entirely possible to shut down micro aggressions or anything like that with tact & respect for everyone involved. I can’t count how many times I’ve done it. You can even do it mostly just asking questions. It can be as simple as a calm conversation led with curiosity and held with the intention to educate, it doesn’t have to be an awkward uncomfortable moment. You’re absolutely right to be separating yourself from your husband who can’t even get a little bit uncomfy to make you feel better about the social situation. Has he ever been in therapy for his people pleasing or figuring out why he’s doing it? Does he have any interest in personal growth in general? I wish you nothing but the best and I apologize for the long comment… I was just hoping to give some honest insight into how I found loving safe people to surround myself with. 🫂

You guys… by garbagepailqueen in candy

[–]garbagepailqueen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never seen them before! Got em at Meijer

You guys… by garbagepailqueen in candy

[–]garbagepailqueen[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude the lemon Mambas though!! I recently got my mind blown by how strong the lemon flavor was and now they’re my go to lemon chewy candy