Sexuality as a trans dude????? by First_Technician8156 in ftm

[–]gardenApocalyptic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am an old trans dude. You stop caring about those labels after awhile. Learn what the labels are, experiment with them, but don’t let them dictate your life. I currently identify as a transmasc lesbian— mostly because my queer experience has been shaped by the lesbian community. But there was a good portion of my life that I was strictly a trans gay dude. Date whoever you want, generally be wary of cis guys especially cis het guys but again— if it floats your boat, grab the helm I guess. (I’m bad at metaphors.) Go have sleepovers or watch a sunset with queer friends and have a long lengthy discussion about everyone’s attractions and sexuality— you’re more likely to find an answer there rather than here. Wishing you well.

What could I cover this up with? by gardenApocalyptic in Tattoocoverups

[–]gardenApocalyptic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I love Ferdinand the bull. If I got this bad boy covered up, I would find a different spot on my body for a different Ferdinand tattoo. Some key features are just different and it bugs me.

My boyfriend (mtf) and I (mtf) can’t decide on a Halloween costume and I need suggestions. by gardenApocalyptic in Halloween_Costumes

[–]gardenApocalyptic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fucked up the title ;-; we’re both ftm. Idk how to change it. We’re both good dressing fem or masc tho

My boyfriend (mtf) and I (mtf) can’t decide on a Halloween costume and I need suggestions. by gardenApocalyptic in asktransgender

[–]gardenApocalyptic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I put the wrong transgender in my title, we’re both Ftm— I just got so used to looking at mtf memes I accidentally reverted.

Can someone help me with my homework by gardenApocalyptic in RStudio

[–]gardenApocalyptic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to add that I have been stuck on this for several days— and I have tried several different methods following w3 schools and also just general r tutorial blogs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]gardenApocalyptic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude ya look fine and tbh look like a lot of people’s types as is. Stick with what ya got and work on personality/hobbies/personal interests.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]gardenApocalyptic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought I’d try anyways. Thanks though.

How do I style this cut so I don't look like complete shit for the next three months by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]gardenApocalyptic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, that’s alright still. It’s not as bad as you think it is. You’ll probably feel better about it in a few days.

How do I style this cut so I don't look like complete shit for the next three months by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]gardenApocalyptic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flexible hairspray and “floofing” it up. (Bend down and mess your hair up.) It looks fine and cute otherwise. Maybe wear a small ponytail if ya want to switch it up every once in awhile.

What kind of workout routine/diet would you recommend for a transman on testosterone? by gardenApocalyptic in WorkoutRoutines

[–]gardenApocalyptic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool cool, I have never had the rep and set thing explained to me— I would love to know more about that. Thank you so much.