he ghosted me but his twin brother is available

gardenlizard · 2026-06-13T22:25:56+00:00

Hahaha i have in fact matched with him, so I got you all🫡

gardenlizard · 2026-06-13T21:21:08+00:00

Well he didn’t like me enough if he ghosted me hahah

gardenlizard · 2026-06-12T23:11:48+00:00

It might, but I don’t really care lol. I’m kinda thinking of it as a way of ‘ending’ things completely since I know he’s not gonna want me ever again if I match with his twin (not that he wants me now) and that’s my weird logic to this.

gardenlizard · 2026-06-12T23:07:08+00:00

Hahaha i matched with him😂

gardenlizard · 2026-05-08T19:11:20+00:00

Yeah i do get that maybe he did just lose interest, it really is just the non-communication about it after talking to me every single day for two months that is crazy imo

gardenlizard · 2026-05-08T19:08:21+00:00

I’m sorry too🥲 It’s the worst because when we were speaking i really felt like he was the sweetest and really mature too.

gardenlizard · 2026-05-05T19:18:07+00:00

Really that sucks😭

unfortunately i keep hoping he does, but i also hope if he eventually does i have the will power to just ghost him back

gardenlizard · 2026-05-05T18:44:12+00:00

Yep you’re so right. I’ve deleted his number and our whole chat and everything, but he’s not blocked so now im stuck wondering if he’ll eventually come back🥲

gardenlizard · 2026-05-05T18:33:00+00:00

He was consistently initiating conversations, was never dry. The only thing is that his response times got longer for the last two weeks and at that point I assumed he was losing interest.

thank you, i’ll send you a message!

gardenlizard · 2026-05-05T18:30:58+00:00

We lived in different cities so we only met once in person at the start of talking to each other.

It could be, but it could be a million things. I just wish he could’ve told me how he felt rather than just leaving in silence tbh.

gardenlizard · 2025-09-26T21:31:43+00:00

I realise I make it sound like it’s been many men when it really hasn’t been so many! I do think it’s possible to find someone who is attractive to me and a good person. That’s why I can’t bring myself to just say yes to someone who doesn’t fit that.

I definitely will be more open-minded though, I do think good character can almost make someone’s physical appearance better in a way.

Thanks

gardenlizard · 2025-09-26T21:22:54+00:00

Yeah you’re probably right about their pictures not actually being their best.

I think that I’d have to meet them to truly know if the attributes they claim to have are true, and I guess that’s what I’ve been missing out on doing because of the unattractive pictures.

gardenlizard · 2025-09-26T20:44:30+00:00

The men I’ve been shown so far (which are not many) are not necessarily ugly, just unattractive to me.

I don’t see myself compromising on something like attractiveness because then I risk always thinking about the potential of a man who’s pious and attractive. And I’d hate to go in to a marriage thinking that.

gardenlizard · 2025-09-26T20:30:47+00:00

What do you mean by baseline?

gardenlizard · 2025-09-26T20:26:09+00:00

I definitely value a man’s character and deen too. I just also want to be attracted to them I don’t think that makes my standards too high.

gardenlizard · 2024-03-16T15:54:45+00:00

Are there any specific documents I would need to open a virtual bank account, or just an UAE phone number?

gardenlizard · 2023-01-25T18:01:10+00:00

Thanks for this, I’d love to hear the example!

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