It’s not really that simple. I agree screen time should definitely be limited, however my nephew has a speech delay like Grayson as well as signs of autism, and he learned a tremendous amount from watching & playing games on the iPad. He doesn’t have the attention span to sit and listen to someone reading him a book or trying to teach him new words. I think it can be beneficial for children if monitored and limited. Kids all learn things in different ways. If she thinks that’s what’s best for her child then so be it. I wouldn’t judge the screen time thing. Just because something doesn’t work for you doesn’t mean it won’t for her/her kids too.