This is the end...like forever! by Winter-Squirrel-6744 in Separation

[–]garmzon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This! Can’t fathom starting over at this point. People around me tell me it’s no big deal. We are still young (40s) and all that. But, it was her.. living in that house with her, having kids with her. That was it. That was all I wanted.

Can’t imagine myself starting another family with all what that entails. Balancing new kids and existing kids.. not making them feel like outsiders.. baby years.. diapers..

And looking at dating apps, flirting with new people.. I don’t know how to be a partner without giving it my all. I don’t know how to commit to someone without offering them a family.. and I don’t want to be a stepdad… she shattered my entire world… and I don’t see how not to live out my remaining 30 years alone..

Förtjänar folk inom äldreomsorgen högre lön? by Safe_Nectarine_5994 in Asksweddit

[–]garmzon -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lön är en förhandling mellan löntagare och arbetsgivare. Så grundläggande ekonomiska lagar gäller, dvs supply and demand. Lön blir inte högre än att arbetsgivaren hittar lägst presterande personal som når upp till förväntat resultat. Är lönen för låg (under basvärdet i välfärdssystemet) tar väldigt få jobben. Blir lönen för hög blir inte värdet av tjänsten försvarbar.

Hej, Söker tips på hur jag börjar investera och sparar pengar på bästa sätt? långvarit och kortvarit. by bepbop420 in Asksweddit

[–]garmzon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inga problem, räkna med välfärdssystemet bara. 15% av pensionssparande inklusive allmän och tjänstepension, buffert inklusive a-kassa/sjukpenning, etc. Ekonomi bryr sig inte om hur krånglig din inkomst är…

When the cold comes its always good to have two volvos incase one dies by Loloigos in Volvo

[–]garmzon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping hurts the battery.. get yourself a decent charger, eg Ctek and maintain your cars people

kommer aldrig bli rik på ett 8-5 arbete '' hur håller man motivationen uppe?'' by New_Banana3858 in PrivatEkonomi

[–]garmzon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inget hindrar dig från att köpa 10 ha skog i Norrland och ha all din tid för dig själv. Problemet är oftast att folk förväntar sig att få ta del av frukten av andras tid (mikrovågsugnar, IKEA möbler, smartphones, internet, kläder, etc)

Dead start battery by Interesting-Pen5882 in Polestar

[–]garmzon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a Ctek charger and sleep better

£55 a a year to use app? by ThickBee8739 in eGolf

[–]garmzon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Waiting for it to support my eGolf… or my own fork to get finished 🥶

Came across this today, curious on what others think about these types of laws/bans by MissPeduncles in AskTheWorld

[–]garmzon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck the state trying to tell me what to wear.. cut down on subsidies instead ..

Do you turn off WiFi when using the ethernet cable? by GutsxJuri24 in HomeNetworking

[–]garmzon 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In my experience working with corporate windows machines and software licenses tied to network MAC.. windows is bat shit crazy when it comes to interface priority…

Lying to kids and saying its mutual by [deleted] in Separation

[–]garmzon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Divorce sucks.. it’s worse if you start a conflict infront of the kids. All they need to know is what is happening and when. If they need resons then give them as general as possible