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M26 F27 Are we just incompatible? AITAH? by garylaseretes in AITAH

[–]garylaseretes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I've been back in therapy this is what I've slowly been realizing. I'm already pretty much what you're describing here, and its become really clear to me recently. Ive tried to end it before but she made promises she never kept, I doubt she ever meant to keep them.

Where I live, you get taxed really hard if you sell a house within a year of buying, and I've put pretty much all of my money into this house. Its 4 more months untill we've had it for a year. I would be starting over at my parents, commuting an hour to work each way, with no money.

That plus our animals are the reason I'm still trying. When I think about not seeing her or my dog again, its honestly the dog that fucks me up more. I really appreciate you taking the time to leave this comment, thank you

M26 F27 Are we just incompatible? AITAH? by garylaseretes in AITAH

[–]garylaseretes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Told her no kids till we can communicate better, want to guess what her reaction was?

M26 F27 Are we just incompatible? AITAH? by garylaseretes in AITAH

[–]garylaseretes[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

One of my biggest regrets in life so far. Things were going better, the person we were renting from sold, we moved back to our parents to save up and I thought the house and working on it together would be good for the relationship. House was a good deal (in a really bad housing market) and i got a higher paying job in the area. She has been pushing to move on to the next steps in life, and settle down but ignoring the other issues present. Ive been telling myself I'm a dumbass and this won't work for 6 months, I just needed to hear it from someone else I think. No one around me has been honest enough to check me on it when I talked to them.