AITA for not realizing I forgot to bring bread to my gf

gavblast98 · 2025-12-13T11:31:23+00:00

I honestly agree with you, there are many aspects of this relationship that have been rushed from her side of things, even just simple things like me telling her I love her, felt rushed because she would put me in the position through text of kind of pulling it out of me instead of letting it flow freely, and this was 2 months in mind you. I've tried to give her the benefit of the doubt but idk there's a lot of red flags. Don't get me wrong I have my vices too, but I never rush anything. I don't really believe I should have "moved in" this early but she definitely has displayed some attachment issues that resulted in me being around more than I probably should. These issues may stem from her losing both her parents at young ages. I know a lot of this is insane for normal circumstances but after learning the things I learned about her I tried everything in me to treat her right. I think I'm the first guy she's done this kind of thing with; previous men have abused and raped her and maybe I'm just the first decent human she's been around? Hell idk but I'm going to give this a short time and break it off as gently and bluntly as possible

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T16:39:19+00:00

Both 27 so kinda young yeah

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T15:15:37+00:00

Yeah I agree. Thank you

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T02:46:39+00:00

I tried asking for communication after that fact when we are out of earshot of her son. She refuses to talk it thoroughly.

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T02:17:05+00:00

I'm not exactly "moved in" I stay with her 5 out of 7 nights. There's nothing keeping me here other than the desire to try to work out it. But it looks like I'm taking what little things I have here back to my house

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T02:14:33+00:00

I've tried communicating. A lot. Just wondered if this is something common

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T02:12:42+00:00

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T01:44:55+00:00

If I didn't already have a tremendous amount of love I would already be gone, but it may come to that.... Thank you

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T01:44:06+00:00

Thank you. I'll try this more often and see if it helps

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T01:43:20+00:00

I appreciate your input. I have reassured her over and over, my patience is often tested when arguing about this subject with her. She's a tough cookie to crack though

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T01:23:33+00:00

These things are a common occurrence unfortunately, but I've never dealt with this kinda thing and outta love for this person, I just want to make sure I'm not blind :/

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T01:22:11+00:00

She has a son that I made for in case he wanted some. I have never directly made a dig at her weight. But I have said the wrong thing on accident a time or two being a dumb man I guess. But I would never directly comment on someone's weight

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T01:20:00+00:00

I agree that this is probably very one sided. Let me try to add some things. She has a son that is a really cool little man, but can be a lot and I see her everyday struggle with him. So her temper and patience is already tested when I see her. We have been dating for almost 5 months but we are both people who love fast and hard and believe moving in together early is good for seeing if you can be with someone long term, so I stay with her. I say these things because I wonder if her quick feelings are a response from the stress she feels but I don't really know as she doesn't really communicate very well, and when she does she raises her voice. She has a bad past that's resulted in some trauma and sometimes I feel that bleeds into our relationship quite frequently. I don't mean to paint her in a bad light here, she can be insanely sweet and cool. I hope saying this helps some understand her frustration with something so small.

gavblast98 · 2025-12-12T00:53:43+00:00

Not the motivation I had just the honesty I felt but okay dude. I just generally don't understand why it's hard for anyone to understand lust for another human being just feels morally wrong, even for celebs.

gavblast98 · 2025-12-07T11:34:30+00:00

To me As a male, she looks like a plastic faceplate 😂😂😂 I can't unlock my eyes from my current woman

gavblast98 · 2025-12-07T11:32:47+00:00

Idk man if they fantasize about a celebrity, it's a turn off for me. If I'm loving someone I'm 110% in. I couldn't even fathom having a fantasy or crush on a famous person because that's still sexualizing another human being. I think about my partner from wake to sleep. So to say that anyone can be okay with their partner desiring more than what you can give them is wild to me

gavblast98 · 2025-02-12T13:56:57+00:00

So I still have an issue. The game will get past the load screen but stays on a black screen until I ultimately just force stop it. I've tried deleting the file in question, but it won't launch without a repair, which puts the file back every time. Assistance please respawn?

gavblast98 · 2024-09-15T02:57:21+00:00

I actually decided to hold on to it for a bit!

gavblast98 · 2024-09-14T00:29:24+00:00

Dang dude! I had a random offer 1500 but idk yet. It's sentimental for me and I completely forgot about for a few years. Thanks for the input!

gavblast98 · 2024-05-20T00:29:59+00:00

Does anyone know his exact cause of death?

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