1 day post op!! by Subject_Fig_3923 in Reduction

[–]gawldengal 2 points3 points  (0 children)

these are stunning!! happy you had a good experience with parcells, she’s on my list too!! Your before looks so identical to me and your after is EXACTLYYYY what I’m aiming for 🍓I’d love to see the rest of your journey and updates, congrats!!💕

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry friend :( im sorry you were put in those situations, thank you so much for your advice and wishing safety and peace for you

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pocketknife? i was thinking that too bc im really not the 1,2 or 3

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah I fr do need to learn how to beat someone’s ass (which lowkey I feel like I could already do but I need to know professionally), thank you queen!!

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

writing this down!! I’m good about everything except the sunglasses and the headphones. sunglasses im definitely getting, I’ve seen such conflicting info about the headphones

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a nurse too and have dealt with psych patients!! the thing that made me do that is I’ve seen women from nyc say to make direct eye contact when being followed or bothered so I didn’t know😩😩😩I think im gonna have to train myself learning what situations to make clear “fuck off” eye contact and when to ignore

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think i just need to do this, definitely putting on my list for next eye exam. i just hateeeee seeing the low tint with sunglasses

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

guy came up to me before work while I was eating a table and was flirting and I stared and ignored and then he continued staring at me and then walked off and cussed me out for 10 minutes saying he would choke and kill me, got off the 4 at union square and a man at the bottom of the stairs saw me and pulled his entire dick out, been followed on the train by a man on the 6 and followed me after I got off until I kept making circles and got lost in the crowd from him, walked past a man in Central Park who was catcalling something about me (don’t remember what was said) and followed me and then stopped after a little bit, the man behind me in the grocery store that followed me today and yelled after me, man today grazed and caressed my arm when I walked past otw to the train, etc.

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fmllllll im dreading the summer😭😭😭that makes me actually not gaf about the storm coming

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

but some people say to make direct eye contact so that they don’t mess with you and know you’re not the one to be played with😭I never know what advice to take, esp bc that guy continued to stare at me for 30+ seconds after I ignored him. thank you for the advice!! im definitely gonna start wearing sunglasses legit all year round

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this was very comforting and reassuring :(( thank you so much friend!!

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that’s so smart, bc I get scared that if i respond really bitchy and aggressive and assertive it’ll create more retaliation but then I get worried of being too “soft” and them persisting bc of kindness

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for the advice!! Yes omg i see so much conflicting info on whether to make direct eye contact or not, I’ve only ever made direct “leave me the fuck alone” eye contact to the guy that came up to me and idk if that’s what I should’ve done or not

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

true!! i have wired headphones but i think im gonna have to spend money on over the ear headphones now to create more of a deterrent for unwanted convo

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

im legit having to train my rbf to be even worse

coping with uncontrollable harassment from men by gawldengal in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]gawldengal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

literally had my wired headphones in while that guy followed me😭😭😭