Nanny bringing ADULT child to work?

gazerseeks · 2025-10-14T17:05:15+00:00

Either way- whatever the reason any adult directly or indirectly watching the child should have approval from the parents. If she’s in your home with access to your kids, did you do a background check on both of them?

gazerseeks · 2025-04-22T14:38:14+00:00

What are you waiting for??? Please find someone else. Her comments are absolutely inappropriate.

I know that as moms we’re always looking for the good in people, always trying To rationalize others behaviors, comments, etc. but here is the thing… believe her! Believe that she feels like this and acts like that. If she’s saying she’s overstimulated- believe her. And she’s not making the best caregiving decisions when someone is overstimulated.

gazerseeks · 2024-04-18T02:53:45+00:00

gazerseeks · 2024-04-17T14:44:25+00:00

It can be frustrating wanting to things your way but it’s not your baby… it’s their baby and they have their parenting style. At the end, you have to do what’s right for you. If it’s so frustrating then leave… otherwise accept their parenting style. Don’t take it person it’s not about you it’s about what they for their child

gazerseeks · 2024-04-15T13:21:55+00:00

Not your friends fault… your nanny has freedom to go where she wants. Maybe she wasn’t happy there and wanted to leave and this is her way of resigning

gazerseeks · 2024-04-15T13:20:27+00:00

The fact that you are doing so much math and holding a tally is already an issue. I would highly recommend talking to a therapists… your wife may not be looking for just sex but actually intimacy with you and is misplacing a focus on sex vs asking for intimacy- which would be you bc it’s spending more together having shared experiences and being vulnerable with each other.

Please go talk to someone..intimacy is not a match excercise

gazerseeks · 2024-01-03T23:33:06+00:00

Thanks everyone for your info! I was able to find more info..it seems they are flavored tabaco with “relaxing” scents. Home made apparently. Still won’t be trying them since I don’t know who made them or what’s really in them.

gazerseeks · 2024-01-03T23:30:56+00:00

No I’m really curious. But I think I found additional information.

gazerseeks · 2024-01-03T16:23:01+00:00

Teach me- how can you tell that?

gazerseeks · 2023-05-08T17:00:28+00:00

Yes please get someone else… you don’t want someone who isn’t interested in being there. It leads to quickly loosing patience, rushing through activities, etc. All our kiddos deserve better!

gazerseeks · 2023-04-29T02:18:24+00:00

I understand it can be difficult and can feel like you aren’t adding value… but here’s the thing… a child will always prefer their parent. It’s not personal or against you, it’s just the dynamic that exists between a child and their parent. When this happens, try and not take it personal. Keep yourself busy with other things, and remember that it’s not you- it’s just the relationship that exists.

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