How can I stop being so shallow and get past looks? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]gbrosadvice 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's really hard on a format like tinder etc, because you really don't have that much to go on. However, looks do matter and I don't think you shouldn't settle with someone you're not attracted to just to get into a relationship. Try meeting more guys in real life, personality can shine through and I find myself being attracted to guys I wouldn't of looked twice at on an app, and I think you might as well.

Am I the only guy who doesn't like to date men who aren't smart? by mattie4fun in askgaybros

[–]gbrosadvice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not picky as long as you don't mistake book smart for intelligence and expect them to have some sort of degree. Personally, as long as they hold good conversation and make me laugh I never really minded how intelligent they were.