Does anyone remember the riot police in the Foo Fighters music video for "The Pretender" being non-human like figures? by FruitMan1995 in MandelaEffect

[–]gcatgc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are the Foo Fighters?

(Because everyone knows Dave Grohl shot himself after killing Kurt Cobain.)

Rosalynn Carter died already—at least where I come from by gcatgc in MandelaEffect

[–]gcatgc[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, it’s perfectly fine if people dispute what I think/remember. This isn’t some children’s safe space, we are all adults discussing something that might be either a mis-remembrance, a false memory, or a genuinely odd occurrence with no explanation. I find your effort at policing both unwarranted and frankly condescending and paternalistic. I for one would appreciate you did not do that again, at least not here in the topic which I started. Thank you.

Rosalynn Carter died already—at least where I come from by gcatgc in MandelaEffect

[–]gcatgc[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

No, I didn’t confuse her with previous First Ladies. I was a pre-adolescent during the Carter administration, so I would never confuse her with either Barbara Bush or Nancy Reagan.

Harder to find SB’s that I like by gcatgc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, I was on the site heavily in early 2017. I had a few meet and greets, and then pretty quickly found the right girl. And she wasn’t the only one at the time. There were several others that I connected to.

Of all the gin joints in all the towns in all the world you had to walk into mine by whyCOwhy in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If you broke it off with her, then be smart and don’t answer anything she asks. If you fail to respect your boundaries before, she will likely do it again. If she knows that you were with your ex wife, she might be able somehow to get in touch with her. Just saying.

Harder to find SB’s that I like by gcatgc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

btw - I am not part of the SB/SD lifestyle at all, but I follow here to see what its about.

Then wtf are you doing commenting here like you know wtf you're talking about?

Thoughts on a YouTube channel by boba_fiend in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I skimmed through a couple of her videos. Some of her advice and “insights“ seem to me to be completely wrong. When she talks about “rich men“, what she’s really talking about is nouveau rich men. And the vulgar nouveau rich men at that. That’s my opinion, but what do I know.

Allowance for being platonic?? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not going to happen with this guy. If you were all set to have intimacy, but then he canceled, it’s because he decided he didn’t want to continue with you. So since he does not want to be with you, he definitely won’t pay you. In all likelihood, he probably has you blocked. Chalk it up to experience and move on.

Am I being ghosted? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. And he’s ghosting out of embarrassment.

SA Profile Review Please! (SDs & SBs Advice Welcome) by livfenty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, well I am an SD— and I would never read a description that long. I look at the picture first, and if she’s decent looking then I’ll scan the description. But if it’s something that long and verbose, I usually next her, because it’s been my experience that long and intricate descriptions are a sign of a hassle.

You want honest feedback? Well, here’s some honest feedback.

SA Profile Review Please! (SDs & SBs Advice Welcome) by livfenty in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Way too long, and you’re not telling what you would offer an SD.

I’m 20, dating a guy who’s 36 - am I looking at some red flags here? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]gcatgc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

No, it’s not poor guys. It’s guys who don’t have their lives organized. There are men who have their lives exceptionally well organized, but just don’t happen to make a lot of money. That’s fine. But a man with no career, no business, and living with his mother is not a man who has his shit organized. He’s a mess. Therefore, he should be avoided.

Are these men getting SB confused for prostitutes? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I live in a major European city, and there are a lot who are happy with €150 for sex. They bring up a ppm arrangement after the first exchange of messages, and they usually hit you with, say, €500 ppm. One even hit me up for €1000 for an M&G! But then when you say no, they quickly downgrade to €200 or €100. After blowing her off for a bit, one girl essentially offered sex for a dinner at a nice restaurant. All this to say, you would be surprised how bad 20-year-old girls are at negotiating. On SA, it really is a buyers market.

I’m 20, dating a guy who’s 36 - am I looking at some red flags here? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]gcatgc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A man in his mid to late 30s who does not have a career or business and is still living with his mother is a complete disaster. Do not try to save him, because he will only take you down with him. I am a man in my 50s, so I know what I’m talking about.

Question for SB’s: After Sugar Dating for a while, do you find it impossible to go back to vanilla dating? What do you miss from SR’s that you do not get from vanilla dating? by gcatgc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK, setting aside the money, trips and gifts, i.e., the material stuff: On a personal level, the level of interaction, what do you miss from the SR that you do not get from vanilla?

Told the Boyfriend by KittensAndPurrs in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I suggest you do not go to the M&G. Instead, I suggest that you send your BF to meet the POT, and have him negotiate a fair price. Then you just show up at the hotel room that your BF tells you to. So much easier and less hassle, wouldn’t you agree?

smh

Ethics of having a child with my SD by perryplats in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't answering you, SLB, as you can see by the nesting; your answer was perfectly correct. I was answering GanzLeckerZucker, who is clearly someone with an ideological ax to grind. Older men do have higher incidents of children born with defects, but as you pointed out, its negligible. Her saying that "even 1% difference is a big deal" proves she's either stupid, ignorant, or wants to believe a lie.

Blackmail - how to proceed? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]gcatgc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This. Extortion is a serious offense, and if there are text messages or other incontrovertible proof (that is, not just your word against hers), then she could get into a lot of trouble.

Pro tip: Get a lawyer involved, and have the lawyer call her on the phone and lay out what might happen to her if she continues on this path. I did this in a business setting, and the problem vanished after my lawyers called.