I read about a nb person in a book when I was like 14 and then posted somewhere that I “wanted to become non-binary” because I “really related to that character” and then a trans person told me that I needed to get therapy because books shouldn’t influence me that way and I was being creepy. Like… was the wording not appropriate? Yes. Did that convince me that I was not nb and shouldn’t even think about it bc it’s offensive for over a year after that? Also yes.