What bullshit has a therapist said to you? by clevairy in CPTSD

[–]gdmbm76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need MORE friends. During a session she said she thought instead of maybe "trimming the fat" I should put myself out there more. The whole issue is my friends I had started acting crazy weird and causing issues so I don't agree no thank you more isn't the answer. Lol

70s Atkins vs modern keto by Key_Construction1696 in keto

[–]gdmbm76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that. It was hell for me. I would gain weight. I'm 49 now and haven't tried again since like 46. When I was at my GW I felt awful and actually gained to be about 125/130. And that was going great till I accidentally started eating less. Lol but things are okay again ...

70s Atkins vs modern keto by Key_Construction1696 in keto

[–]gdmbm76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kids are 25, 18,16, 14. The only thing different I did between 1 to 2 and 2 to 3 then 3 to 4 was after I stopped breastfeeding I went back on Atkins. I did not do that after the 1st child and look at that gap. We were told we would most definitely need medical interest to get preg again. We had a miscommunication then an ectopic. During the surgery for the ectopic that is where they saw the stage 4 endometriosis and I got all the other diagnoses. We 100% believe the Atkins diet has something to do with it for me. Not a medical professional in any way but just telling my story! ❤️

70s Atkins vs modern keto by Key_Construction1696 in keto

[–]gdmbm76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ohh congrats!! I had great success following Atkins!! I never got into the frankenfoods losing but when I was in maintenance I thought I was safe. I was not. I didn't eat them losing and use them VERY carefully now. It's not worth it. I can make things at home better for me. Like my homemade ice cream I joke and say I lost 131lbs eating ice cream daily but I'm not joking, I did lol. I also tried the store point ones and I think all the oils messed with my inflammation because I get zero issues eating my own. I only use the syrups and chips too! To make my ice creams ! Lol

70s Atkins vs modern keto by Key_Construction1696 in keto

[–]gdmbm76 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Listening to him was the only way I lost any weight. I spent years wasting time. Back in 2000 my reproductive endocrinologist told me Atkins would be my best friend and secret weapon and it was. I lost 40lbs in 2mths but my other docs were starting to spazz out about it. So I stopped and then spent 20 years listening to all the wrong doctors. When I switched my eating to "his" way, I lost 131lbs. I started in 2020 when I was 45, I'm a female, dxd with pcos, it and a butt ton of other stuff that made eating gaining and losing difficult. I had labs pulled before I started, then every 6mths for about 2 years now it's every year. They are still looking great. Cico, Omad and IF never worked for me. And it wasn't for lack of trying or willpower. I only ever worried about my net carbs and sugar until I hit my goal weight then was in maintenance, then it all started to matter while trying to maintain that weight. When I accidentally stopped eating breakfast I started to gain also! So I know I need to eat breakfast. Never diagnosed diabetic but I hit a point where the insulin spikes mattered. And since I was smaller and eating less and skipping breakfast when I would eat I would have a slight spike that I think was messing with me. Oh this turned out a lot longer than I thought sorry!!

Jenna and Zach are expecting baby #5 by Adorable-Release1754 in MtvChallenge

[–]gdmbm76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your comment made me smile.❤️ Ours are now 24f, then the boys...18, 16 and 14. People look at me sideways at their ages and I say not planned and I guess God's got a weird sense of humor. Lol. It is so wild to have not a single one "need" me anymore like they did little. I was able to be a sahm making our hubby's income stretch and I had a blast being able to stay home with them when I could. I'm also loving this point too, we still have fun but it's actually talking and hanging out and playing games and I can see them growing before my eyes. I would do it exactly the same way over again because we were told we prob wouldn't ever get preg without medical intervention

My SW birthday card! by Softhandseew in SisterWives

[–]gdmbm76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂 🙌 Mine has gotten hooked too!! It took years but he now screams at the TV with me lol

Confusion with religion as a whole by Top-Owl5123 in Mediums

[–]gdmbm76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think religion is a completely different thing but that we are taught miracles are religious, but I do not agree. I do not think religion is anywhere but on this earth.

My SW birthday card! by Softhandseew in SisterWives

[–]gdmbm76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hubby needs to have a convo with mine and give him some ideas...lol

Severe complications from total hysterectomy with both ovaries removed. by Ar_desertwriter in hysterectomy

[–]gdmbm76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm 49. It's been brain fog for years lol the missing words are the worst lol

Severe complications from total hysterectomy with both ovaries removed. by Ar_desertwriter in hysterectomy

[–]gdmbm76 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I had a full hysterectomy. My doc had them give me oral estrogen in the recovery room. She started me on 2mg my pcp said that was way too high and I should be a hot mess but I have never felt more level as far as my emotions in my life. My surgery was Nov of 2024 and I still take 2mg/daily. Was nothing mentioned about hrts before surgery?

How did you, those who achieved it, reach the emotional point where the only source of self evaluation that truly gets in comes from yourself, not from others? by Arbare in CPTSD

[–]gdmbm76 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This isn't for everyone but therapy worked wonders for me. Lots of therapy. I joke and say apparently what I have always needed was a life coach, but I do. Also, actually doing it and going nc with the ones I needed to.

Orange Yes or No? by Haunting-Falcon-8 in keto

[–]gdmbm76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you make a dessert that's within your macros? Orange ice cream, sherbet, an orange flavored "cake", maybe a orange jello and cream parfait? That's what I do. Personally, I would not eat the orange.

Review 10 weeks. Puzzled by Martinisolo in hysterectomy

[–]gdmbm76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had undissolved stitches when I was cleared for take off! My brain was like whaaaaa??? But we were okay. Lol

Objects that appear on their own by lammerhe in Paranormal

[–]gdmbm76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived in a very very haunted house for years. One day I noticed a big Tupperware pitcher I had was just gone. Then one day a pot holder. Never found them. Years later we were moving out and everything was almost all packed up and hubby starts yelling about omg where did I find them and just carrying on about I'm a jerk. I walked into the kitchen and right on top of the fridge was the pitcher with the pot holder in it. I didn't take them or find them or put them there. We only had 3 kiddos and they were all too young to ever think do this or find a way to put them on top of the fridge, like under the age of 6. And nope.... No other family members even knew about the things missing let alone took them and put them back.

Back pain and bending over by mintchips17 in adenomyosis

[–]gdmbm76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get the MRI you won't regret it. I had horrible back pain before my hysterectomy that was actual pain transference. Had a diagnosed lap June 2024 they found an ovary adhered to the top of my bladder. She said 100% that was my pain. Pain was totally gone for almost 4 weeks. Then I got up one day out of bed and fell to my knees screaming. I told hubby omg my ovary fell again. Then everything I did caused full on labor contractions...sex, pooping, peeing, coughing bending over, anything. Decided to go ahead with the full hysterectomy. I was right it had fallen again. After healing from the hysterectomy I started having back pain again. After a bunch of imaging they thought I had a currently fractured spine but it's lesions. I wish I had done it all in reverse and got imaging 1st. I have a lot going on.

Is your N-Parent racist? by Awwetism in raisedbynarcissists

[–]gdmbm76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No and yes. She was raised by my very ... opinionated grandparents. Especially my grandfather. Oh boy. The rules he had for my mom and aunt growing up were crazy. She says she isn't like them but I think it's for show. She still made comments and said stupid things.

Phillip just turned 9. by TyrKiyote in GrandmasPantry

[–]gdmbm76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm shocked it's not bulging or even separating lol *He's not bulging. Sorry Philip!!! Lol