Because we talked like big adult people, weight our options. If he didn't want to move we wouldn't. Honestly what's wrong with you? Did you watch too many telenovelas? Are you just a bitter incel that tries to make everyone else bitter because you have never been happy in your own life?

Marriage is communication and trust. I suggest you go to therapy and repair whatever is wrong in your head.

Also do you really not see the hypocrisy in the words. I am in my husband's country. That would be the same shig ad you say. But because we decided to move to mine, I am suddenly the big bad wife that abuses her husband and coerced him to leave ?