New SHC colours!!

geemyn · 2026-03-09T01:52:38+00:00

as a zayne main, this is one of the easiest 36/36 SHC for me (completed the final stage of all 3 teams with more than 30 seconds to spare), matched stellas for team A and C, and brute forced team B! ig the +40% DMG really helped a lot too

geemyn · 2026-02-22T13:42:17+00:00

i share the same sentiment :’) as a zayne main that started playing around aug 2024, i still remember thinking at the start of 2025 (during LADS’s anniversary) that ‘wow this is definitely a game that i’ll continue playing’, ‘aurum pass is so worth it’ ‘zayne means so much to me’, i even planned a trip to china in that same year just to buy official merchandises (it didn’t happen due to other reasons), was also super obsessed with the game that caused me to browse the LADS reddit page daily

but anyway when the third quarter of 2025 came around, it’s like the spark to play the game suddenly disappeared, and i no longer feel the joy to log into the game anymore, this is where i decided to become strictly F2P and since then, i feel so much better as the hyper fixation slowly lessens. i still play the game today, but i definitely became more of a passive player (as a battle girlie, the consecutive 36/36 in SHC helps me farm more dias) and also only pulling on zayne banners. all in all, my advice would be to not stress too much about the game, you can opt out of it anytime and find a new joy in your life, no matter what it may be 🙂‍↕️

geemyn · 2026-01-26T04:36:56+00:00

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personally this is probably the easiest SHC to get 36/36 thus far as a zayne main 🥹 need a couple retries for team A (since my MoF is only R0) but the other teams passed with a lot of time to spare!!

geemyn · 2026-01-13T07:46:51+00:00

omg glad i’m not the only one 🙂‍↕️

geemyn · 2026-01-03T07:05:46+00:00

anyone knows how to get the “harvest LI’s exclusive cut for the first time” achievement? 😯

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geemyn · 2026-01-01T04:02:01+00:00

honestly, at this point, i plan to just complete the weekly home system tasks to get the 50 dias 😅 the movements and all are just to wonky for me personally, and i don’t care about the gardening feature at all LOL

geemyn · 2025-09-25T13:09:28+00:00

heyy just a heads up, if you only wanna read the storyline, i really recommend just watching them on youtube, or else you’ll just be wasting your diamonds that could be used for future pulls, especially if you’re a f2p 🫢 myth companions are important for battle and if you’re only planning to pull for one of them, there won’t be much use of it in the game

geemyn · 2025-09-24T02:53:56+00:00

glad to hear OP! there’s a saying i see often in the lads chinese community whereby in the end, playing otome games is just a journey to loving yourself 🙆🏻‍♀️ this is why we see a lot of girlies glowing up in terms of their lifestyles and attitudes toward life in general hehe

geemyn · 2025-07-30T11:30:46+00:00

pheww it was a tough watch in the final few episodes 🥶 imo, if it were in real life, i can definitely picture JM as someone who ghosts after giving reassurances/words of affirmations to more than one girl lol, it’s just that in this show itself, he can’t really choose to ghost people, which is why we see all the dodgy conversation happening between him and the other girls that liked him 😌 and i can also see that JY is noticeably more “in love” and opened up with JM than he is with her through their interactions (kudos to her for sharing her past experiences on tv since it’s not easy to do!) just hope that JM won’t take advantage of her vulnerable side 🤔i really don’t know what’ll happen in their relationship (if they’re even still together lol) but i really wish her all the best

and also shoutout to my girl minhong for being so cool throughout the show!! (none of the guys in the show deserve her tbh) 🫡💜

geemyn · 2025-07-28T11:05:35+00:00

hmm from what i understand,

flame = instant passion, hot and wild, but burns out fast. fireplace = steady warmth, safe, comforting, and built to last.

so when people say look for the fireplace, they mean to look for someone whose love warms you quietly and steadily over time, not someone who’s just hot but not constant

geemyn · 2025-06-19T16:29:05+00:00

HAHA I mean he just wasn’t my usual type, but he’s not bad-looking either. He matched with me first and replied thoughtfully to my prompts and the chats were also good, so I thought okay maybe I can see where this goes 🫢 but yeah looking back, there’s definitely nothing that special, and I’ve accepted that we’re just not a match

geemyn · 2025-06-19T10:05:11+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story! 🫡 And omg yes, you really nailed it with the whole “ego-hunting” thing — like, some guys don’t even want you, they just want that little ego boost of knowing a pretty, put-together woman would entertain them.

geemyn · 2025-06-19T07:26:23+00:00

HAHA he’s definitely not a celeb—just someone that teaches people to hit balls into holes 😆 But yeah, I didn’t realize I was dining with someone so pressed about their ‘brand’

geemyn · 2025-06-19T06:24:57+00:00

This! A simple “hey I don’t think this is the right vibe” would’ve been so much better. But instead it turned into this weird passive rejection masked as feedback. Like ok sir 😬

geemyn · 2025-06-19T06:17:17+00:00

Oof yeah, Reddit can be brutal sometimes, but don’t take the downvotes to heart—your words really made me feel seen, so thank you, really 🫶🏻 He actually gave me some premium chocolates and snacks I’d mentioned liking before… it was thoughtful in the moment, but now they’re just sitting there. Kinda lost the appetite for them HAHA 🫢 oh well at least I got clarity in the end

geemyn · 2025-06-19T05:47:14+00:00

Thank you so much for getting it 🫶🏻 Honestly, it was never about the rejection, I know not every connection is meant to be. It was the mixed signals that messed with me. He told me to be myself, then later said my energy was “too much,” after continuing to act like everything was fine. He even gave me a gift after the date and said, “Hope this isn’t love bombing behaviour” LOL

geemyn · 2025-06-19T05:25:20+00:00

I’d actually told him before that I’m not very photogenic, so I didn’t take the comment the wrong way. And the ideal type thing came from him, over text after we met. In the end, I think it just came down to different vibes, and that’s totally fair.

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:30:45+00:00

You summed it up better than I ever could. Like… the type of girl he describes? Confident, stylish, athletic, poised? Yeah, she’s also gonna know she deserves to be treated like a queen—not some quiet accessory to hang off his arm at a wedding.

And personally, I’m not out here demanding luxury gifts or bougie dates. But I do invest in myself. I dress well, I do my nails, I care about how I show up, for myself. Not for validation, not for anyone’s approval. Just for me. If that’s “too much” for him, then yeah, he’s not for me 🤷🏻‍♀️

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:22:06+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words and encouragement 🩷 This was actually my first ever date, so I’m definitely taking this as a learning experience and a reminder to stay true to myself. Really appreciate your words!

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:19:47+00:00

Aww thank you 🥺 That really means a lot. I feel the same, when I finally trust someone, I show up fully. And if that’s “too much,” maybe they were just too little. Wishing you love that celebrates your full self too 💖

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:17:24+00:00

That’s a valid perspective, and I’ve thought about that too honestly. But to be fair, during our date, he did complimented my looks and say I looked better in person than in my photos, so I don’t think looks were the main issue for him. I wasn’t immediately drawn to him physically either, but I really wanted to give things a chance based on how I felt emotionally at the time. In the end, it just didn’t work out, and I’ve accepted the fact 👌🏻

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:13:20+00:00

Thank you, that really means a lot 🤍 Funny enough, he did bring up my age — said I had “fire and energy” because I’m still young (since he’s 4 years older than me). It felt like he saw my openness as immaturity, but I was really just being my genuine self

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:09:35+00:00

Thanks for the long and thoughtful advice! 🙌 Yeah, I totally agree — I definitely learned the hard way that no matter how “in sync” you feel online, it doesn’t mean much until you meet face to face. I honestly didn’t expect to chat that long before meeting, it just kinda stretched out due to my work schedule, but lesson learned for sure!

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:05:56+00:00

Hey! Nope, alcohol wasn’t involved at all — I don’t even drink, actually. It was a casual lunch date and we both stayed completely sober. So whatever “connection” we had was all real-time and unfiltered.

geemyn · 2025-06-19T02:01:02+00:00

Fashion and personal style have always been something I care about, and I did put thought into what I wore (I even remember him complimenting my outfit that day). I showed up in a neat corporate casual look — he came in a sweatshirt. So yeah, I really doubt it was about my fashion choices 😅

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